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>You said “sitter didn’t do a good enough job.” >I wonder if parents have ever critiqued sitters’, or >their daughter’s or one another’s spankings as not >good enough, after seeing a “you call that a >spanking?” spanking. I remember one woman I worked >with talking about her spankings from her mom as being >a bad experience but necessary and effective. Turns >out her spankings consisted of one swat. I have also >witnessed single swat spankings with one mom putting >her boy over her lap and saying, “this will give you >something to cry about,” and one swat was it l. >Another took a really long time to get her daughter >perfectly positioned on her lap, and finished with one >light swat. > >>Mark, >> >>I know this happened awhile back now, but I wanted to >>give my support to you in the two spankings you gave >>your son. They were both needed and well deserved. You >>think, as a young parent, you will get past those >>tantrum years when the kids get to be older, but then >>find out that is not the case, they just throw a >>'different' type of tantrum in their teens! >> >>As to your question, oh yes, there have been a number >>of times I have spanked a child more than once in the >>same day. It's never happened more than twice, but I >>have given second spankings for separate incidents of >>misbehavior in the same day or as a 'drive the >>spanking home' follow-up spanking, as well. >> >>It's been a long time since I've given a second >>spanking in the same day for separate misbehavior. It >>is one I've done much less often, as their bottom is >>already giving them a good reminder from earlier in >>the day. But with little children, their minds are >>like goldfish, so they don't 'remember' quite as well, >>act up again later that day and need that second one >>sometimes. But as I said, it's been quite a number of >>years since I've had to give a spanking like that. >> >>But similar to Mary and Kate, I have also given >>follow-up spankings for a spanking I had administered >>already for more significant misbehavior. A lot of >>these are for spankings I've had to give away from >>home, especially at church, as I view misbehavior away >>from home more serious. So I feel a good follow-up or >>reminder spanking is needed and good for them. The >>follow-up is only given with my hand, but it is still >>a good, sound hand spanking and they don't cry and >>wail and less loud or hard. >> >>Finally, also like Mary, mine could usually expect a >>second spanking if they earned one while babysat. For >>the reason that they didn't listen to my warning when >>I told them to behave but mainly because I felt they >>needed a follow-up spanking as their sitter didn't do >>a good enough job. However, it also depended on the >>sitter. Because if it was my mother or one of my >>sisters, I sometimes did not give a follow-up as it >>wasn't needed. >> >> >>Sarah
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