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Date Posted: 11:41:27 08/23/16 Tue
Author: Anonymous
Subject: It could be a personal thing. I don't know. I don't know who
In reply to: George Cukor 's message, "Pining" on 10:48:51 08/23/16 Tue
Why are you gaslighting Lilo?
Like I said, if Lilo had this need it would show up in the other stuff she does online and it doesn't as far, as I have seen.
I certainly see people who have issues post elsewhere and their issues are obvious, and while I certainly cannot prove it, I have my suspicions when I see some things written here that it was one of them.
The way Lilo "openly" writes here, is pretty similar to the way she writes under her own name on Facebook. That is why people who either know her or know of her, like me, don't buy the Lilo must be a psycho line. There are a few people in Isaakland who see themselves as constant victims of others and never acknowledge or recognize their own bullying or attacking behavior.
I know that Lilo had had a plan to see CI at a show that was foiled by bad plane connections. While she was really disappointed I didn't see any excessive performance of victimhood the way some might have. That would have been a perfect time to show "true crazy" victimhood. Disappointment and making plans to try to see him again isn't crazy.
When someone starts up this kind of Lilo attack it seems to really shut down the board. I know I give up on this place when the horrible person is running amok here. That shutting the place down is reason enough for some person with problems to start something up. It gives them a sense of power to control the content on an anonymous board.
Given that there are only two "known" names on here, what effect would there be if that person posted and wrote under the name of guest, Guest, nm, ... or any of the other "names" used here? None of them are associated with any particular person so any of them saying stupid things is just someone saying something stupid. And we see what happens here when someone says something stupid. No control in that.
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- The LILO crap is to get people off the other topics being discussed -- Anonymous, 11:51:05 08/23/16 Tue
- Thank you. Agreed. All so true. I tend to leave the board when it gets toxic, too. To -- Anonymous, 11:52:05 08/23/16 Tue
- heard the term "gas lighting" before, as used in psychology. I stumbled -- Anonymous, 07:57:50 08/24/16 Wed
- enlightment -- Anonymous, 10:12:03 08/24/16 Wed
- Thank you 👍💗 (NT) -- Anonymous, 10:18:05 08/24/16 Wed
- Ingrid Bergman and Charles Boyer -- Anonymous, 10:38:21 08/24/16 Wed
- enlightment -- Anonymous, 10:12:03 08/24/16 Wed
- Wasn't it nice, when everyone was able to discuss here -- Anonymous, 10:51:40 08/24/16 Wed
- I think she's already doing that. ;) (NT) -- Anonymous, 11:49:01 08/24/16 Wed