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Date Posted: 13:50:47 03/10/18 Sat
Author: Stina to Ellen
Subject: Re: My 13 year old daughter
In reply to: Ellen 's message, "My 13 year old daughter" on 21:07:39 03/09/18 Fri

>Emma, my 13 year old daughter is driving me a bit
>crazy. She is completely crazy for boys. I know that
>kids her age become extremely involved in their social
>life and that's fine up to a point, but my husband and
>I feel she has passed that point. Recently, after a
>certain amount of intrigue, I discovered that my
>daughter had stolen $20.00 from my purse. She did this
>because she had already spent her allowance for the
>week and she wanted to go to the movies with her
>friends. We are perfectly aware that " friends"
>includes boys as well as girls. Emma "borrowed" the
>money, as she characterized it, because she didn't
>want to miss the evening with all those "cute" boys.
>When I discovered what Emma had done, I was very angry
>and I decided not to deal with her at that time
>because of that anger. I sent her to her room and told
>her that her father would deal with her when he got
>home. When I told her that she turned a little pale
>and whined, "Is daddy gonna whip me?" Still angry, I
>replied, "He will if I have anything to say about it!"
> When my husband arrived home, I told him what Emma
>had done. He called her downstairs and scolded her and
>told her she was getting a licking with the belt. He
>sent her upstairs to get ready for bed and,then, went
>up and tanned her bare fanny with the belt. Poor
>little thing. I went up later to comfort her and found
>her asleep on her stomach with only her pj top on. Her
>little bottom was red and raw looking and I felt sorry
>for her, but I believe that you have to punish that
>kind of dishonesty.
>
>In addition to the spanking, we grounded Emma for two
>weeks. We are halfway through her grounding and I
>suspect that she is not observing the restrictions
>that we placed on her. I can't prove it. I haven't
>caught her yet, but I have a strong suspicion that she
>is breaking the rules of her grounding. Through all of
>this, Emma never tires of the subject of cute boys.
>Her main complaint about being grounded is that she
>isn't getting to go with her friends, including those
>cute boys. She's been warned over and over that she is
>not to be dating any particular boy and she denies
>that there is a particular boy. We have allowed her to
>go to movies with friends, boys and girls, as a sort
>of group date, until the stealing incident and her
>grounding.
>
>I'm concerned about Emma's behavior and what I suspect
>she may be up to with a boy. This weekend I arranged
>for her to babysit for a friend of mine to keep her
>busy while she is grounded and to make a little money.
>Her reaction was to complain that she doesn't like
>little kids and whine about having to do a simple job.
>I warned her in no uncertain terms that she would do
>the babysitting job and do it without complaining or I
>would refer her to her father and his belt. We'll see
>how it goes.
>
>So, if you have managed to get through this diatribe,
>do you have any advice for me. How do I handle this
>boy crazy 13 year old girl?

Well, your daughter is typical girl in this gentle age. I understand it because my own daughter is almost 13 already.
She is angel sometimes but try to be wild sometimes too. However, tanning of her bottom works well

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Re: My 13 year old daughter -- Beth, 21:20:15 03/10/18 Sat