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Date Posted: 16:56:41 04/09/19 Tue
Author: Danica
Subject: Re: What other Wives/GF's here are spanked in a domestic discipline relationship, and why?
In reply to: Becca R 's message, "Re: What other Wives/GF's here are spanked in a domestic discipline relationship, and why?" on 16:10:52 04/09/19 Tue

>Hi Danica.. And TY for welcoming me to your forum.
>
>Yes, all of what you said makes a lot of sense to me
>too. We seem to have a lot in common as far as who,
>how, and why we enjoy being spanked. I too was spanked
>a lot growing up, mostly by mom (my stepmom, but the
>only mom I ever really knew) with panties down or off,
>and while bending over her knees or across her lap.
>Yes it was painful and often humiliating, but as you
>said awesome, exciting, erotic and for me probably a
>lot more sexual too. I got wet, masturbated afterwards
>when I could, and fantasied a lot about being spanked
>by my parents and other people too that I saw as
>controlling and dominating.
>
>I also did bad or stupid stuff just to get spanked
>across her knees. Not for the pain, but like W-s said
>for someone else to control me completely. For me a
>spanking is all about being totally controlled and
>submissive to someone I see as a dominant... I hate
>the pain, but know it has to be real for the spanking
>to be emotionally and sexually rewarding for me.
>
>And it is even more emotionally rewarding and sexual
>now that my husband does it... Because I know that
>when he is finished spanking and disciplining me, I'll
>get to have awesome, erotic, hot sex with him because
>I'm a good girl again! :)
>
>
>
>
>>Hi Becca..welcome to the DD Forum! I hope you enjoy
>>coming here and posting! Feel free to post anything, I
>>am not taboo about honest postings!
>>
>>I am not sure we can explain "why" fully. For me, it
>>is not voluntary, it is discipline from my husband,
>>but it is pleasing and somewhat sexual. I get wet
>>every time I am spanked.
>>
>>I was spanked by my parents, mostly my mother, and got
>>wet the first time during a spanking at age 12. It
>>was an awesome feeling, yet still very painful...my
>>Mother left my bare bottom quite hot and stinging for
>>what I had done that time (yes I did cry, and many
>>times thereafter). But after that, I craved spankings
>>to get wet again...it was a high. It didn't happen
>>every time then...maybe one in 10, but increased over
>>time. I began doing things just to get my Mother to
>>remove my panties and warm my bare bottom.
>>
>>I still do that with my Husband...do things to make
>>him take my panties off and spank my bare behind. My
>>bottom still hurts, stings, after, but I don't cry
>now.
>>
>>Does any of that make sense?
>>
>>I hope I have adequately answered your question and
>>you feel welcome to post again.
>>
>>Danica

Hi Becca!

Thanks for baring your inner feelings here and sharing the intimate parts of your childhood.

It was mostly my mother too that spanked me. If my Dad spanked me, it was usually over my panties (up) with his belt, but that was rare.

My Mother on the other hand was open to spanking me any time I needed correction. Her preference was to have me naked below the waist (so panties off) any time it was covienent...and her definition of convenience was different than mine. Over her lap, or a lot of times standing while she held one arm. Bare hand or bath brush was her most common implements on my two bare cheeks.

It was painful...and very shameful..especially depending on where at and who saw me naked...but I loved for them to see me get wet...which they probably never noticed, but in my mind no matter how painful the spanking, the feeling of being wet and someone noticing was as hot a feeling as my Mother made my bottom feel.

I masturbated after my spankings too, as I got older.

Although my husband now spanks me solely for discipline, at his discretion (although I tend to be a bad girl), I love the fuck afterwards...it feels so naughty, so arousing, so erotic. I thoroughly enough having my hot ass penetrated by his penis after he tells me I've been a naughty girl...I find it very anal erotic and will have an anal orgasm from it!

Oh, I feel so naughty and dirty now...I want a spanking!

Danica

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