Date Posted:18:45:18 07/26/19 Fri Author: Danica Subject: Re: Mother-in-Law Spanking In reply to:
ellie to Danica
's message, "Re: Mother-in-Law Spanking" on 00:19:15 07/26/19 Fri
>>>>>>I was talking to a new girlfriend I'd made in the
>>DD
>>>>>>world, and she was telling me that she was spanked
>>>by
>>>>>>her Mother-in-Law...this started after the
>>marriage,
>>>>>>and continues today.
>>>>>>
>>>>>>Anyone else out there spanked by their
>>>Mother-in-Law?
>>>>>>If so, how, and how did it come about? Was it
>>>before
>>>>>>or after the marriage? Is it just the
>>>>>>Mother-in-Law...or the husband also who spanks
>you?
>>>>>>
>>>>>>Danica
>>>>>
>>>>>I'm sorry i didn't answer the questions about how
>it
>>>>>all got started. I should explain that we live a
>>>>>pro-spanking community so girls like me get spanked
>>>at
>>>>>home, school, and church. Before the wedding my
>>>>>parents and hubby's mom, my fiance and i all talked
>>>>>about my discipline "needs." My parents were open
>>>>>about how i had always been spanked, most recently
>>>>>with the cane which had the most effect, etc. I
>>>>>blushed through the whole discussion but did not
>>>>>protest.
>>>>>
>>>>>Everyone agreed that, like other wives around here,
>>i
>>>>>would expect to be guided and "corrected" by my my
>>>>>husband, especially as i was so young and still
>>>>>subject to the paddle at school. But since he would
>>>be
>>>>>gone a lot the first couple of years, i would come
>>>>>under the care and supervision of his mother and
>she
>>>>>would teach me (with the help of her hairbrush) how
>>>to
>>>>>be a good wife and worthy of her family.
>>>>>
>>>>>On the wedding day, my father, quite publicly,
>>>>>presented my husband with a rattan cane, saying he
>>>had
>>>>>found it very effective in keeping me in line and
>>now
>>>>>that was his responsibility. People laughed, i
>>>blushed
>>>>>furiously, and some knew he was not joking.
>>>>>
>>>>>I hope that answers your questions.
>>>>
>>>>Hi Ellie
>>>>
>>>>Thanks for providing the additional detail.
>>>>
>>>>When you were going up as a child, how were you
>>>>spanked before the cane? at what age did they
>>>>introduce the cane?
>>>>
>>>>Were you spankings as a child corrective of you bad
>>>>attitude and misbehavior? and now as a young
>>>>woman/adult, how do you feel about being spanked on
>>>>your bare bottom with the cane? Do you approve or
>>>>disapprove of your spankings?
>>>>
>>>>Danica
>>>
>>>Thanks for asking, Danica. I just accepted growing up
>>>that all children got spanked, i didn't know any that
>>>didn't. It was like chores, no-one liked them but
>>>no-one thought they should be abolished.
>>>
>>>As with most kids, i assume, spankings progressed as
>>>we got bigger and more able to tell right from wrong.
>>>Also as bad habits and vices set in which parents,
>>>church, and school tried to drive out, with the rod
>if
>>>necessary. Mine started with a few slaps of the open
>>>hand on my bare bottom, through the hairbrush (about
>5
>>>yo i think) to the strap and belt. I don't want to
>>>start an argument, but it was also assumed that boys
>>>did not get spanked after about 12 or 13 though they
>>>had plenty of other punishments they hated. The idea
>>>was that they needed to learn how to become heads of
>>>their own households one day, to guide and correct
>the
>>>females and children under their authority. A girl,
>on
>>>the other hand, is learning to follow in her mother's
>>>footsteps, to honor and obey her husband and other
>men
>>>in authority like the pastor. She is never too old
>for
>>>a spanking.
>>>
>>>Anyway, i think i started getting the cane at about
>15
>>>yo at home, while still getting paddled at school. A
>>>paddling at school always meant a caning at home the
>>>same day. At first, my dad seemed tentative and
>>>careful with the cane, like he didn't want to hurt
>me,
>>>lol. But the canings too became harder as i got older
>>>and the maximum number of strokes went from six at 15
>>>to 12 at 18. Now at 19 12 is the official minimum. If
>>>something merits a caning at my age, it merits at
>>>least 12 strokes.
>>>
>>>How i feel about it depends when you ask me, lol. But
>>>except when i am just about to be caned or just got
>>>it, i feel it has helped me a lot. I see a lot of
>>>girls, including college girls, who had no real
>>>parental or school discipline, who grow up spoiled
>and
>>>entitled, and i just think a good paddling or caning
>>>on their bare bottoms would do them a world of good.
>I
>>>don't really know about their lives, i just know i
>>>need structure and discipline (as Mother-in-Law calls
>>>it) to thrive, be happy, and make my husband and
>those
>>>around me happy as well.
>>>
>>>ellie
>>
>>Hi ellie
>>
>>Yes, very well put, thank you for writing back to me
>>and responding with such depth.
>>
>>I agree fully that a girl is never too old to be
>>spanked, and go so far to say that a girl should be
>>spanked often, that a girl with a red bottom is a
>>well-learned girl.
>>
>>I did not like my spankings growing up...yes they
>>hurt, they were embarrassing...they were necessary.
>>At times I admitted it, at times I did not...but they
>>all were in hindsite. They taught me to be a lady
>>through my red bare bottom.
>>
>>Now as a woman, my husband has every right to spank my
>>bare bottom as he sees fit...I may not like it, I may
>>fight, but in the end, after it is all over, I am
>>better for being spanked like a naughty little girl
>>again.
>>
>>You may have said it, but I take it that your canings
>>are on your bare bottom?
>>
>>I agree, there are many insolent college girls out
>>their with bad attitudes that need a good panty off,
>>bare bottom, belt smacking, spanking.
>>
>>Mandy I think is one of them : P
>>
>>Love
>>
>>Danica
>
>yes, always on the bare bottom, from when i was little
>until yesterday
>
>ellie
Sigrid (MIL, read this!!), 07:46:08 07/04/20 Sat