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Date Posted: 21:45:02 02/01/19 Fri
Author: Mrs M (Mandy H)
Subject: Re: Wedding Night
In reply to: LisaS 's message, "Re: Wedding Night" on 18:01:42 02/01/19 Fri

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>Hello. I wasn't on those other sites, so please tell
>about your engagement and wedding night spankings.

Well let's start; at the beginning (ish).

I was raised in a strict home. Were I had more than, the normal amount; of responsibilities.

I also had; lots of freedom. That I could earn. But with that higher privilege; came rigid discipline.

I got my first, "real" spanking; when I was 2 yrs old. (&) I can remember, as early as age 4; having my bare bottom spanked.

Then about age 9. My parents gave me; my first "paddling"!

For the next 3 years, my spankings might; or might not, include the paddle. But by age 13; Almost all, spankings. Were harsh, bare; and with the paddle.

THE BEST THING MY PARENTS, EVER DID; FOR ME! (Because of my ocd.)

I was a "perfectionist". Before, I even knew; what that word meant. I did NOT, handle failure well; on any level.

I had to learn, everything; all day long. (Kinda like, a female version; of " Young Sheldon") (&) !!!

Had to get; straight A's / Had to know; everything / Must do; everything...

Unlike; the "Big Bangers". This perfectionism; also included sports. I played, them all. "Needing to be good"; at all of them.

Failure, in ANY; of the above. Was met with horrid; disappointment & anguish.

Forcing me, to seek better disciplines. So to insure, against any; future failings, of a similar nature.

Now, I came by this ocd; naturally. My parents; were both perfectionist, too. (But no where near; my level!)

But the worst, failures of all; for me. Were failing, my parents.

I must commend; my parents. For doing, the worlds best job ever. Of having a child, fully understand. A simple, & very common; parental speech:

(Wack, wack, wack...) "This (wack); is for your own good"!

They, really sold it. (&) I bought in; 100 % !

As a burning, stinging fire; consumed by globes. After a proper bare paddling.I would realize.

"I don't want; more of this! I'm going, to make; me, & the whole world better!! By not failing; like this, again!!! "

I now know. It was the best way. For my good heart, to tell my great brain. My naughty butt, doesn't like failure! Brain you MUST; not fail!!

** I know, this post is way short; of the "Message subject". But, I promise. I'll tell you, much more latter!

*** (My man beckons; so I got, to go!) What else would you like, me to include; in my next posts? Mrs. M (Mandy)

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