Re: I must obey -- Domestic Discipline

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Date Posted: 07:52:44 07/04/20 Sat
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Sigrid (Biblical, reasonable, NO!)
Subject: Re: I must obey
In reply to: Karin_ven 's message, "Re: I must obey" on 15:34:16 04/07/20 Tue

A three year old(!!!) girl is testing you, her parents, in order to make sure you love and accept her as a person which can be spoken to and negotiating with...and you failed!
But, she didn´t give up; she tested you several times...and you failed again and again.
You seem not being aware of this perspective and probably you don`t approve of it because that`s the easy way out.

The day she stops testing you the big problems start! By that time she has almost no faith in you whatsoever...

And yes, I have great experience from negotiating with kids of all ages. I have never spanked any child and never lied to them and of cause never grounded a child because that is potentially socially disabling! They simply need interaction with other people!
You are creating more problems than you (don`t!) solve!
Show compassion and respect and you will get it back from the child, multiplied!

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