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Subject: Re: Responsibility...

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scamptoo to Alicia

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Date Posted: 10:17:43 05/03/25 Sat
In reply to: Alicia to Mommy trish 's message, "Re: Responsibility..." on 01:58:19 05/03/25 Sat

If I am reading your post correctly, your 12 year old brother-in-law has come to live with you and his brother because their mom passed away.

You say that your husband has given you "authority to discipline "his brother", but you are not too sure how to discipline him?

You also said that your husband told you that his brother has never been spanked before.

So I am guessing that the two of you have discussed spanking the boy?

If that is the case then what the two of you need to do is sit down and talk to the boy, and tell him that his behavior is not acceptable and that you and his brother have decided to use spanking for all of his misbehavior.

How you chose to spank is up to you.

Some in authority choose to spank over the knees with only the pants and underwear down, while others choose to spank over the knees with the boy completely naked to add embarrassment to the punishment.

And others choose to spank in the diaper position with the boy completely naked, as they feel they have more control over the boy if he is on his back with his legs pushed up to his chest, and they can see his facial expressions to judge what effect the swats are delivering.

It is up to you, and your husband, to decide how you will spank the boy if you have already chosen spanking as a punishment for misbehavior, and tell the boy how his spankings will be done.

Write back and let us know what method the two of you have decided on.

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