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Subject: Re: To Miracle

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grandpaBob

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Date Posted: 11:48:59 05/03/25 Sat
In reply to: Cassidy to grandpabob and Cody. 's message, "Re: To Miracle" on 07:41:07 05/03/25 Sat

Hi Cassidy
it seems Miracle is behaving like it was expected. At the beginning it's always not easy as the old habits are hard to break but you don't have to desist. Now this is the most important stage, where you can set your own rules and pave the way for a wonderful Miracle's future or, if you desist, to lose everything with no chance to regain it.

In this moment Miracle is like a wild little horse and you have to work good to maintain her inside the safe boundaries you created for her. From her current behavior you can already sense that she wants to stay within her safe enclosure but, on the other hand, her wild spirit, underneath, pushes her to force your hand.

Just continue to be strong and coherent with yourself and your rules; in all likelihood this acute phase will not last long than should begin a period of "peace" during which, however, you should not let yourself go because there could probably be some "rekindling" from time to time.

Anyway, the more you'll go further on this path, the more likely Miracle will become easier to live with.

For these first times you will have to be very strict and never have a blind eye on anything; it's very important Miracles understands well life is changed and nothing will ever be like before. Every time you'll have to deal with her, for the good as for the worst, make incontrovertibly clear to her that you love her above all else and you care for her more than anything else in the world.

If Miracle will post to me I'll be ready to reply her

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