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Subject: Re: Eleonora, re: manipulation, etc.

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Debra to Bodack and Zoe

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Date Posted: 18:12:20 02/11/26 Wed
In reply to: bodack 's message, "Re: Eleonora, re: manipulation, etc." on 17:46:20 02/11/26 Wed

Just to finish that note about my misuse of the name Marina, you can see the note I just posted to Marina on the Spanking and Discipline forum. I had that all typed up to be copied and dropped in and was looking at it just before I dropped in my already typed note to you two on this site.

On your comment that what I've been seeking here is more of a "negotiation" than a "manipulation" (which you are right is the subject of this group of posts), I would say I think you are probably right but I am not sure I understand the difference between the two words as applied under this topic. That is my fault, I am probably not experienced enough or sophisticated enough to understand the difference.

I felt what my step-sister does with me is manipulate me into getting spankings by blowing up or exaggerating small things I do to justify spanking me. Like it is true I tossed my school skirt on my bed and hung my blouse on my chair and left my shoes where I kicked them off when I changed into a Tee and shorts and sandals--but I only did that while I ran down to have my snack in the kitchen, and fully intended to put everything where it belonged later that day. But my dear step-sister saw them, raced a fuss at the time, and then told my mother that she found I had thrown my good clothes everywhere--and I felt that was manipulating me into a situation where I got spanked.

But it is true what I was really looking for here was more like "negotiation points" to help me get spanked less or spanked a little less long and hard. Sorry if I put my post here into the wrong place. Debra

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Author: bodack [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 19:10:54 02/11/26 Wed I really don't know how you can do any thing to reduce the severity or frequency of spankings.The spankings don't seem to have a goal of changing your behavior. If you could answer my favorite question since you get to watch at least some spankings. How many licks?