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Eleonora
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Date Posted: 12:36:48 01/31/26 Sat
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Caitlyn
's message, "Re: Caitlyn, do you come around?" on 09:48:27 01/31/26 Sat
Hello!
No, I wouldn’t say mom had no reason to be concerned - she did have! When things get heated up, we all do, don’t we? That’s why I think you should be at least a little more forgiving abt yourself. Did your therapist go into that?
I would also do things differently, if I then knew what I know now - don’t we all? But to know that in another way, is one of the things that makes me think that the whole experience wasn’t just a waste of everybody’s time and energy.
No, I never got to a point where I clearly had the thought ”this is how I can manipulate myself out of this”. Probably because too much else was going on, and I didn’t notice that changing over time. If anything, I’d say it was more like mom going easier, not in the spankings themselves, but under what circumstances and how often they happened. What makes you think that the things you said were manupulative? All of them? The things you said that made your spankings longer and harder, how do you know that was the case? It’s that judging from the outcome that happened, or did they say something that made you think so? And how much slack did they cut you, thinking that it’s always reasonable to try to defend yourself? Did that change, depending on person or over time? I get the impression that your aunt did move her position over time?
My best wishes for you, and all of us in the dark times we find ourselves in!
Leona
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