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Subject: Domestic Discipline Question

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Layla

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Date Posted: 10:04:36 12/26/25 Fri

Im not sure if domestic discipline is okay to discuss here but if it is, I wanted to see if anyone has any experience? My hubby and I do it and we wondered what people do when they have family/friends over and you get in trouble? It happened to me this week and we were curious. We’re still new and learning.

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[> Subject: Re: Domestic Discipline Question
Author: bodack [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 11:09:25 12/26/25 Fri A lot of us here are curious about it. My experience from reading other posts is that most people handle after the guests have left.

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Author: Layla [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 11:11:24 12/26/25 Fri That’s ultimately what we did, I got spanked this morning as opposed to Tuesday. But my husband wasn’t keen on waiting. My Mom and Stepdad wouldn’t have had a problem with it, but we decided to wait this time and talk about it.

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Author: bodack [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 13:29:38 12/26/25 Fri How did your mom and stepdad find out you get spanked by your husband?

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Author: Layla [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 16:57:11 12/26/25 Fri They don’t know yet, I haven’t’ told them. I think they may suspect but I’m not sure.

[> Subject: Re: Domestic Discipline Question
Author: bodack [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 19:17:31 12/26/25 Fri I wouldn't let your parents know. They might call the cops.

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Author: Layla [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 06:23:05 12/27/25 Sat They definitely wouldn’t call the police. I’m pretty sure they’d support it. My stepdad is a big believer in spanking and really old fashioned. It’s more of an embarrassment thing for me.

[> Subject: Re: Domestic Discipline Question
Author: Shane [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 20:27:22 12/26/25 Fri I will give my wife the “look” and send her a text that she’s in trouble. Usually, I will wait until the guests leave before giving her a punishment. If it’s a situation where we have guests for a longer term, I have non-spanking punishments I use that can be done with nobody else knowing.

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Author: Layla [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 06:24:15 12/27/25 Sat What kind of nonspanking punishments do you use?

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Author: Shane [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 13:16:57 12/27/25 Sat Cornertime is easy to do once everyone is in bed. Writing lines. We keep the notebook used for line writing in our bedroom, also easy to do once everyone is in bed. She also hates thongs, so one punishment is I have her wear a thong for a specific length of time.

[> Subject: Re: Domestic Discipline Question

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Anna
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Date Posted: 08:54:02 12/27/25 Sat

Hello, and thank you Layla for asking the question about whether domestic discipline is okay to discuss here. More than ten years ago, I was participant in a Voy forum dedicated to domestic discipline and spanking between married couples. I know it was at least ten years ago because it went away soon after I became pregnant with our first child. Because I was also getting focused on the pregnancy (and our second one followed in two years), I didn't look for a internet place to talk about spanking.

Domestic spanking is a huge important part of my marriage. My husband was not interested at first, but I asked him to be more of a disciplinarian after we got engaged. He is almost eight years older than me (I am now 41), and has learned to be a very effective leader in our marriage. Almost as important he is very good at giving the spankings so I will learn. They are not cruel, but spankings from my husband really STING, and take long enough that I remember them and avoid them as much as possible. Early in our time having spanking in the relationship they happened probably four or five times per year, now it happens only one or two times per year.

Perhaps Laylas thread is good place to continue the discussion?

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Author: Layla [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 09:00:54 12/27/25 Sat Thanks, Anna! It’s nice to have people to talk to about it and bounce questions off of. Do your kids know you’re spanked?

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Author: bodack [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 13:04:05 12/27/25 Sat There was a website called "this thing we do" that had a thread about a marriage where not only did the kids know about the spankings but approved of it. Before the spankings started there was constant arguing and tension. After the husband starting spanking the wife there was peace.

[> Subject: Re: Domestic Discipline Question
Author: Agelmar Jargad [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 06:47:45 12/28/25 Sun Here's a small glimpse into what Domestic Discipline can be like: https://www.amazon.com/-/de/dp/B0D2PBSWNN