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Subject: New perspective on spanking as a parent? Author: Alan [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 19:38:25 01/03/26 Sat i can remember how mortifying it was as a young teen to be spanked bare in front of my sisters or family adults. I thouoght it was a terrible thingand my parents should be cursed for it. Even tho i enjoyed seeing my sisters - one older , one younger, have to strip for their spankings. I thought we were way too old at the time --or at least I was. Now with 3 kids of my own, emmie, 19, Sara, 15 and Tommy 12, those feelings come up in them when I have to spank them. And I see them as my folks saw us -- children who needed a firm hand. Emmie gets her spankings inprivate now, but still completely nude. That's the rule. I've seen her naked since she was a baby so none of her body is new to me, and we dont want the kids thinking they have a level of maturity they haven't earned yet. As embarrased as she is for me to see her nude for her lecture and spanking, I think she's grateful it is in private. And I think she's learning that we don't see our children in the same persepctive they see themselves. Sara and tommy are spanked in the living room, as always. And jsut as we were as kids, they can be spanked in front of family and close adult friends from church who agree with our methods.Sara has gotten to the age of modesty, and I'm wondering if we should limit who is allowed to stay for her spankings. She's very shy that she hasn't developed as fast as some of her friends. that makes it easier for us to continue to see her as the child she is, but is there such a thing as "too much "embarrassment? [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: New perspective on spanking as a parent? Author: To Alan [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:32:06 01/04/26 Sun My 17-year-old niece Stacie is also disciplined fully nude. Her punishment is administered with a leather strap across her bare buttocks. I think that it is perfectly fair and proper to administer Emmie's spankings in private as a result of her age. I also believe Sarah at 15 should also be disciplined in private if her spankings are also carried out with her fully nude. I believe Tommy at 12 is close and also must feel terribly embarrassed having to be fully nude in front of his older sisters. How are your spankings carried out?

[> Subject: Re: New perspective on spanking as a parent? Author: Anna to Alan [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:18:47 01/04/26 Sun Hi Alan, I have daughter 19, 17 and 13 and sons ages 15 and 11. All five are still spanked over my knee on their bare bottom with and paddle. They are all spanked in the living room. Their siblings are allowed to watch if they want and relatives are also allowed to watch. They have also been spanked at times with their cousins. they only time their friends are allowed to watch is if their friend is also going to be spanked. My oldest daughter is only spanked for serious offences. My other four are all spanked at least once or more a month. Just this evening I spanked my 19- and 17-year-old daughter and 15-year-old son. I wrote about it earlier today. How often are each of your children spanked? Are they spanked over your knee? Do you spank with an implement? Feel free to ask me questions.