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Subject: Thinking Behind After Spanking Corner, Early Bed, Grounding Author: Bobby711 [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 15:58:41 12/19/25 Fri Having read some parents send spanked children to the corner, to bed early or ground to their room/house, which do you decide and for how long or early (for early bedtime)? Or, no rationale, just fly off with the sentence without thinking of the ramifications (missed TV show or event, etc.? [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: Thinking Behind After Spanking Corner, Early Bed, Grounding Author: Jason [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:54:41 12/23/25 Tue My parents used a unique form of grounding they called “square one.” How it worked was EVERYTHING in my room would be removed, and I had to do chores and continue being on my best behavior to earn my stuff back. So, there was never a set time limit, only how fast I could earn it. I always got my mattress, clothes, and desk back the same day. I don’t think they ever intended on keeping those from me in the first place, they just did it for the shock value. It never lasted long…I think the longest amount of time I was grounded was maybe a week and a half.

[> [> Subject: Re: Thinking Behind After Spanking Corner, Early Bed, Grounding Author: Kevin [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:48:00 12/23/25 Tue Jason, that's an interesting form of grounding. One I quite agree with actually. Makes you put in work and effort to make things whole again. It also reminds me of a conversation I was involved in probably a decade ago at this point. It's one of those where it kinda sounds fake but it definitely isn't. A co-worker and I were at a client's office meeting with one of the managers there about their needs. Eventually, the main topic of conversation was done and we somehow got off topic and the manager started talking about her daughter (I think she was 19 at the time) and how she still lives at home. Somehow, and I can't for the life of me remember how, the topic led to said manager talking about how she still grounds her daughter and she has to earn points by doing good deeds to get her stuff back. Things like extra chores without asking, calling and talking to grandparents, and so on. And no, she didn't say anything about spanking. That probably would've been way off base for the environment anyway. All I'm going to say is that she didn't SAY anything about it, but the way she talked about how the grounding worked and how serious she is about keeping her daughter's behavior right gave me the vibe she wasn't a stranger to it either. Probably a case of "she might, but if she doesn't then she probably used to."

[> Subject: Re: Thinking Behind After Spanking Corner, Early Bed, Grounding Author: Anna [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:58:38 12/23/25 Tue After every spanking they get sent to the corner for thirty minutes. Depending on the nature of their offence, I will ground them to their room for a day or more. As for as early bedtime, if they are given a spanking at night, then right after their corner time they are sent to bed.

[> [> Subject: Re: Thinking Behind After Spanking Corner, Early Bed, Grounding Author: Bobby711 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:09:25 12/24/25 Wed Hi Anna, thank you for your response.I think you mentioned before that you had sent your daughter to bed at 5:30. As you know, I have corner time after my spanking and earliest sent to bed time for me had been 7:30 or 8 pm two nights in a row. I just think being sent to bed early is a double punishment. In my situation, I could not go out and missed events, some were planned far in advance.