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Subject: Re: Appendix, etc

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Caitlyn

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Date Posted: 19:32:30 11/05/25 Wed
In reply to: Eleonora 's message, "Re: Appendix, etc" on 07:51:22 11/02/25 Sun

Hi!

It was laparoscopic, so there are just some small scars. They don’t really make me look tough!

My mom was probably more alert overall to any potential issues when my stepdad was traveling, just because there wasn’t that second set of eyes. But when he was home she was always watching out for any problems between me and him, and trying to head them off one way or another. She never really eased up though, at least not in spanking me when she thought it was warranted, except maybe that last few months or so that I was at home.

There were a few spankings that I’d consider arbitrary, meaning that they were for something that didn’t necessarily require a spanking even by the rules and expectations that were in place. My stepdad spanking me for my final statistics grade when my mom had already spanked me for the problem that led to that grade is an example. But I don’t think that last spanking falls into the same category. With how that discussion turned into an argument and things that were said, a spanking was predictable. I haven’t really modified my thinking about that one, except that I’m more sure now than I was then that he was deliberately provoking me.

Some of what you describe as arbitrary on your mom’s part could have been something else, don’t you think? I know my parents reacted differently to things when they were having a bad day, and I definitely think there were times when a spanking occurred because little things I’d said or done had built up to the point where they thought I needed a spanking or they needed to get rid of their frustration. Maybe the same things happened with your mom?

Take care!

Caity

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bodack
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Date Posted: 16:37:24 11/06/25 Thu

"they needed to get rid of their frustration"
Let me add a slightly different view point. I have been in such stressful situations were I needed every ounce of energy to take care of me. Any thing that takes away thay energy has to be dealt with immediately, even if it was something that if your weren't overloaded you would enjoy. I think that was responsible for a large amount of my mothers actions.