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>Hi Jerry, > >Thanks for the advice. I think ill try some of that. >This weekend Luke will be here. We will take a bath >together. When i go swimming i will change in the >changing room not the stall. It going to be >embarrassing 😳 but if it help me not be shy and >embarrassed later then i will do it. I will use are >showers to. > >Bye >Billy > >>Hi, Billy, >> >>Let be kinda like a big brother here and offer you >>some advice. It's no shame to be shy, but it just >>might cause you some real grief in the future if you >>are required to take a shower after PE in high school. >> Do take the trouble to find out if that is required >>at your high school. It is at mine. That means that >>every day I have to get naked in front of seniors, >>juniors, sophomores, and freshmen and shower off. Any >>kid that shows evidence of being embarrassed at that >>gets teased mercilessly or even bullied. You don't >>want that, believe me. In fact there is an urban >>legend at my school, almost certainly false, that one >>year a new freshman didn't want to be seen naked and >>tried to take a shower with his underpants on. The >>seniors pulled his underpants off, threw him outside >>and locked the door shut, forcing him to pound on the >>door attracting attention to himself from the >>passers-by who could see everything. As I said, that >>legend is probably false, intending to scare new >>freshmen into getting naked from the get-go. In any >>case, it points up the fact that you may have to show >>everything to your male classmates without blushing or >>trying to cover up. >> >>Therefore, if you have to take showers after PE you >>need to get used to being naked in front of other boys >>long before the time comes when it's mandatory. I >>strongly urge you to start practicing now. Can you >>access the showers in your locker room after school >>when there are no others around? If so, get naked and >>take a shower then. If there are other kids there, >>they won't tease you if you act embarrassed because >>you are not being <i>forced</i> to get naked. Work up >>to the point when you can take a quick rinse-off after >>class with all the other kids around. >> >>Go to a public pool or beach if you live near one, and >>carry your swimming suit with you. Practice putting >>it on in the changing rooms, taking longer and longer, >>remaining naked longer and longer until you get used >>to it. A great practice routine would be to go skinny >>dipping, but that is probably not in the cards. >> >>If you have a sleep-over with a buddy at your house, >>take a bath or shower with him. If <i>he</i> is shy, >>have your mom make it mandatory if you can. It will >>be to his advantage, too. >> >>If you can't bring yourself to practice like this, and >>you have to shower after PE, I sure hope that you can >>do so without appearing embarrassed. Best of luck to >>you!
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