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Subject: Re: feelings about the video, did the kid deserve it, how much parents yell


Author:
Lucas (to Jay, Brody, Liam)
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Date Posted: 13:05:13 11/25/25 Tue
In reply to: Jay (for Lucas) 's message, "Re: [video] Alabama belt spanking of 12 year old over pants, 22 whacks" on 20:52:54 11/24/25 Mon

> I think Brods and I watched this a few times b4 we
> posted on it this afternoon. We also searched for
> the original version that wasn’t edited or have the
> boy’s face blurred. It wasn’t hard to find.

Yeah I have seen that version too. I'm glad I found this version that's on an "official" news site. cos for one thing if I posted a link to the version with all the f words then I think I would end up getting the belt myself when Mr Alf noticed. Plus probably a mouth soaping.

And also because it seems dodgy to be linking to some random video hosting site or to some random person's Instagram account if you know what I mean.

Altho maybe there's no special rights or responsibilities that clickbait news sites have that anyone else doesn't have. Hmm not sure.

But also an "official" news website is less likely to get taken down.

> I feel bad for him it being this public.

I think maybe the video being public isn't that much of a deal in his life right now. His Mom just lost her job and got arrested and he's been sent to live with his aunt. So probably he's not in school for a few days anyway. And most ppl he knows at school probably get spanked at home anyway (it's that sort of school). By the time he's in high school it will just be a funny anecdote from years ago.

Like once he's 15 and in high school and way bigger than he is in the video, it will be easy for him to say "yeah I cried like a baby when I got the belt when I was 12, so what?"

> Maybe he should start posting here. 😂.

Definitely!

There would be some chaos if his older siblings started posting here as well tho :D

> A couple of things Brods and I talked about. This kid
> really did a good job of getting in place and staying
> there during the spanking. When his mom got done
> yelling at him, it looks like he knew it was time and
> he just got up and put himself over the edge of the
> couch without even being told. And then he did a
> pretty good job of staying there when he got belted.
> Didn’t even kick his legs really. Well, a little at
> the end, but not much. And he didn’t even have
> anyone locking them down like we have in our house to
> help with that.

Yeah! The positioning is a really interesting part of this video. He has definitely been in that position *lots* of times before :D :D

> I watched it a bunch more tonight. I kinda feel bad
> doing that, but it is interesting.

Yeah it is definitely interesting! And like Justin says, it's intense.

I've watched it several times too. Altho sometimes I can't watch it all the way thru cos it's kind of disturbing somehow? idk it's sort of confusing how I feel about it really.

When I was his age I thought "a bad spanking" was like two dozen hand smacks on bare bottom. Hard smacks, but stings nowhere near as much as what most people get (belt or paddle or whatever). So I think seeing a video like this is a really useful example to compare. And help people understand that a proper spanking is a really serious thing.

> Does that make me a bad person?

No not at all! You're not the person spanking him. And it's possible to feel bad for him but also at the same time feeling schadenfreude or finding it intense to watch it.

Plus, we can be pretty sure he earned it!

A bunch of different people have seen me getting big spankings (in person) and I'm pretty sure most of them either enjoyed watching it or at least found it interesting to watch. I don't think there's anything wrong with me finding it interesting or exciting to watch someone else getting it :)

There's a bunch of different spanking scenes from movies or TV that I've watched lots of times over and over again. This isn't really any different. Knowing how it feels to get it, makes watching it super exciting for some reason.

I think it's maybe because I'm imagining it's actually me getting it and me that's yelping and crying and begging like that? Which I don't know why it's intense to think that while watching it, but it is.

> I’m not sure how much the spanking really even hurt him.

Hmm tbh I think he is really feeling it a lot. Even if it's over undies, she is whupping him *hard*. And it kinda looks like she's a large powerful lady that has had a lot of practice at giving belt whuppings, and he's a pretty small 12 year old. Probably with, like "Wondering" said, "a small boyass" lol.

(Smaller target area = more intense sting? Or larger target area = more fire? Liam might have insight into this....)

When he yells "please" he knows it's not gonna help (and will maybe get him more) but he just can't help it cos it's stinging so much. And when he yells "yes ma'am" it's not cos he's in pain or shock from her pulling his hair, it's cos she's whupped him hard enough to make him remember his manners and he knows there's every chance she's going to put him back over the couch again and give him some a bunch more. And he desperately doesn't want that cos he's way too sore to take any more. (This is when extra whacks is most effective!)

> Mostly, I’d have
> felt a lot worse about the yelling and the hair
> pulling. Those are the parts that bother me most.

Yeah that makes it a lot more disturbing and she really shouldn't have done that. Altho I guess that's just the reality of how that lady is.

The yelling kind of confuses me because. Like partly it makes me feel that the kid must really deserve it if he's made his Mom so mad. Like why would she be yelling like that if he hadn't behaved really appallingly badly? And if he behaved that badly then he deserves even more than what he got :D

But also at the same time, the lady is obvs super out of control and shouldn't be slapping and hair-pulling and yelling like that.

One thing is that. Altho my Mum never behaves like the lady in that video. She kind of does more yelling than my stepdad does lol. Like the only thing my stepdad would ever say to me even slightly loudly is specifically "you don't answer back to your mother like that!" and then he takes me straight to the garage and he barely says anything cos his belt on my bottom does the talking.

But in "the lecture" and sometimes while she is spanking me, my Mum maybe doesn't yell but she does scold rather loudly! Is there a big difference? lol

When my stepbro spanks me it's the opposite extreme cos he's never angry with me at all and he just finds it funny or enjoyable. Kind of like "oh Lucas, do you know how much trouble you're in now?" I know some people find his attitude weird but, there's definitely no yelling from him.

I'm not sure about hair pulling. I've been grabbed by my ear a few times! And led to the garage by my ear. Maybe if my hair was longer they would use that instead of my ear?

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