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Subject: Re: yelling versus scolding, bad words, etc. For Mr Matt


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Matt to Lucas
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Date Posted: 16:14:36 11/25/25 Tue
In reply to: Lucas 's message, "Re: yelling versus scolding, bad words, etc. For Mr Matt" on 14:50:49 11/25/25 Tue

>Matt! btw, you're older than me (ofc), and right now,
>you're an adult (technically) and I'm not.
>
>Is it OK if I call you sir?
>

I am only like 9 months older lol. No :D

>Anyway this is my reply:
>
>> Yeah like I said my parents are never out of control
>> when they punish us. Not saying they are happy. I
>> have never heard them use a bad word ever.
>
>Your parents are awesome sir. My Mum is never out of
>control when she spanks, definitely not like that lady
>in the video, but my Mum definitely seems angry to me
>sometimes!
>
I totally get that. My dad and I have talked a lot about the video and I think I will say more later in this.

>And my Mum is very good at combining a spanking (it's
>the hairbrush when she spanks me) with a very loud
>scolding. It's not yelling but... I don't think the
>volume is all that different? lol. Hopefully she won't
>get to see this.
>

Your mom is lot like mine. When she spanks there is a lot of lecture or scolding while she is doing it. Not dad. He gets that out before and when the spanking starts he is usually done with that.

>My Mum does not EVER use anything even near a bad
>word. But my stepdad uses some borderline bad words
>including in front of me. It's just what he's like.
>

I have never heard mom or dad say a bad word. Maybe they did when they were kids but they won't say that. They also have never said they didn't. Just don't discuss that. Actually I think dad said he did once but papa and memaw made sure it was the last time.

>It seemed unfair to me when Mum decided (encouraged by
>stepbro, who was encouraged by Alf lol) that even the
>same words that my stepdad would use every day and in
>front of me, would count as bad words if I said them.
>And results a big paddling plus mouth soaped.
>
>> We didn't always get spanked in private. It depended.
>> If we acted up in public then we got it where ever.
>At
>> least until 14 or 15.
>
>I would hate getting spanked in public, but I just
>hate getting spanked anyway. Anyone that gets a proper
>big spanking, stops thinking or caring about where
>they are and who is watching, once the spanking
>*really* gets going. It's only way afterwards that I
>would suddenly realise who saw and heard me begging
>and howling.
>

It was never getting spanked with other people seeing that upset me. Most times is with others and even if not everyone I know in church gets spanked. It is just what happens. I mostly felt bad cuz I thought they thought I was bad and needed a spanking. I know that isn't true that I am a bad person but sometimes I felt that way.

>> My dad never used a belt but I know his dad did.
>
>Wow! Please may you ask ask your Dad, does he know
>where that belt is now? (or where those belts are?)
>

Ask him yourself. Not sure he will respond or not. He finally posted to this site. I was shocked but he was very upset about what he saw or maybe read. Not sure upset is the right word but that is all I got.

>> I do feel real bad for the kid that his spanking is
>on
>> the internet. That isn't right.
>
>True, altho it seems that both his older sibling (who
>filmed it) and his 24-year-old brother (who apparently
>uploaded it) thought that they were doing that for his
>own good.

Don't tell my dad that. He saw it very differently. Surprised you didn't know it was him. I did but I am his son.

If you read this stuff again you will know which one is him. You ain't stupid.

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