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>>Hello Alf! >>Nice too meet you too. > >Thanks Dawid! > >>You already answered your question, I think. A >>spanking is over quickly. The whole procedure >including >>preparing, waiting and corner time takes less than a >>hour. The spanking itself takes less then two minutes. > >That's true! And a very good way to look at it, Dawid! >Just curious, but have you ever timed a spanking? Or >were you guessing it's less than two minutes? Two >minutes can still seem like a looooong time in that >situation, unfortunately! > >>So, yes, it is over quickly. At most one evening is >>ruined followed by a day or two or slightly sitting >>problems. >>But still over quickly. >>I have friends that get grounding for punishment or >>takes things away (like mobile phone), but would not >>want to >>change with them. >>With grounding the punishment lasts for days or weeks >>(not just two minutes). I also observe, that my >>friends when >>grounded or getting things taken away are often angry >>with there parents for a long time and when the time >>is over >>everything goes back to normal again. But I think >>after a spanking, I can really change my behaviour for >>some time. >>When I'm standing there in the corner with my bottom >>freshly caned I often promise myself to be a good boy >>now. >>My mother is sometimes quite impressed by my behaviour >>in the days and weeks after a spanking. I don't know >>if modern types of punishment have the same effect. > >This is all very *very* well-thought-out and >well-stated, buddy! It's definitely a perspective that >I've heard a lot parents mention when they discuss why >they spank. And I think it's really awesome that you >have such a mature outlook on it at your age. > >>There is also another, maybe secondary reason. A >>spanking is easier to hide in the peer group. We're >>often meeting with >>friends, we're constantly writing on Messenger, or >>talking about TV. And If one of us gets grounded, gets >>his phone taken >>away or is forbidden to watch TV, he can't hide it. He >>has to tell us, that he was punished and of course >>everyone wants >>to know why, so it is kind of embarrassing within the >>peer group and I never have that. > >This is a really good and interesting reason too, >Dawid! I've never quite thought about it in that way >before, but you're right! It's easier to hide a >spanking because it's over with so much quicker than >being grounded. A spanking is usually more private so >it can stay just between you and your parents and you >don't have to suffer the embarrassment of having your >friends know you made a bad choice and needed >punishment. And that's definitely a good thing, imo! > >Thanks for the reply and this really interesting >conversation, Dawid! I hope you're having a great week >and avoiding the cane. Take care!!
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