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>Brody! > >I am so proud of you!!!!! > >I have always believed that everyone should live their >truth, and here you are doing just that, or at least >getting ready to. That’s huge! Your life is going to >be so full and rewarding! > >I agree with Alf, your folks probably already have a >hunch and since they know you better and love you more >than anyone, I’m willing to bet that they’ll greet >your news with a HUGE hug. > >You’re an amazing human. I wish you nothing but joy >and love and happiness. > > >>>Hello 👋 Mr. Alf!!!! >> >>Hi 👋 Brody 👨‍🎤!!! >> >>>>Thank you for taking the time to reply, buddy. And >>>>good job on finishing your homework 📚 too!! 🙌 >>>Even though I like talking here Mr. Alf, I still have >>>my goals of all A's this year! >> >>That's great, buddy!! Good luck, Brods 👨‍🎤, >>you can do it! >> >>>>>Believe me, I am trying to be good 😇 Mr. Alf. >I >>>>>need to points with mom 👩 and dad 👨 right >>now. >>>>>They are not going to be very happy 🙁 with me in >>a >>>>>few days. >>>>Oh well this sounds interesting, Brody 👨‍🎤! >>>>What makes you think that they aren't going to be >>very >>>>happy with you, buddy? If you feel like saying, ofc! >>>>Well, whether you want to say or not, good luck >>🍀!! >>>>I hope that you earn those points with your folks >and >>>>they're not mad at you. You're a great kid and I'm >>>>sure it will all work out. >>>>Oh! Also, I saw Danylo's post to you about the >recent >>>>decision in your life and I know you don't want to >>>>make a big deal out of it, but just to mention: I >>>>agree with Danylo's kind words, too, and it is 👌 >>>>with me, as well. :-) <3 >>>🥹. Thank you 🙏🏻 Mr. Alf. >> >>You are very very welcome, buddy! 🫂 >> >>> I was kind of >>>worried what you would think 🤔. Jay and you talk >>>🗣️ a lot about religion ✝️ sometimes I know, >>>and I know you are very Christian. Not all >Christians >>>like 👍 people like me. >> >>You're right, unfortunately! Christians *should* love >>everyone but, unfortunately, some of them can be very >>judgmental. And that's not the way it should be cos >>the biggest commandment Jesus gave is to love Him and >>love people. God needs better representatives lol. >> >>> My own church ⛪️ >>>doesn't even like 👎 people like me Mr. Alf. I >>>can't even get married 🤵🏻🤵‍♂️ someday >>>to somebody in my own church ⛪️. Did you know >>>that? >> >>No, I sure didn't. 😢 I know that's gotta be hard >>for you to think about right now, so I'd like to >>encourage you to <em>*not*</em> think about it right >>now. I know that the 🤵🏻🤵‍♂️ issue will >>come up eventually but, for now, just take it one day >>at a time and deal with the obstacles as they come. >>Focus on having the conversation with your mom 👩 >>and dad 👨 and I think the rest will fall into >place. >> >>>It was not really a recent decision Mr Alf. I knew >>>when I was 9️⃣, I have just not said anything. I >>>was watching this show on TV 📺, The Fosters, and >>>they had this episode where a boy 🧒🏻 about the >>>age I am now told his mom he was gay. Well, I always >>>knew I was different, but right then I knew why. I >>>was like him. >> >>Thank you for sharing this with me, Brody 👨‍🎤. >>It means a lot that you would confide in me with this. >>🫂 And you know what? I <em>loved</em> "The >>Fosters"! I always thought Jude was a great character >>and the boy who played him did a great job! >> >>>Anyway, that is why I don't want to do the >>>confirmation ceremony. I don't want say I believe >>>things and promise ✌🏼 to do things when I don't >>>mean them. So I have to tell mom 👩 and dad 👨 >>>about being gay 🏳️‍🌈 before confirmation. >>>That is why I said they will not be happy 😔 with >>>me. Jay says they will probably understand and won't >>>make me do the confirmation. I keep meaning to tell >>>them 👩👨 but I keep chickening 🐔 out. Mom >>>👩 is especially going to be very disappointed in >me >>>Mr. Alf. This is important ❗️ to her. Maybe I >>>will tell them this weekend, but I don't know >>🤷‍♂️. >> >>This is a really difficult situation, buddy, and my >>heart goes out to you. I really wish I could make it >>easier for you. 😔 And the upcoming confirmation is >>a further complication, ofc. Not being Catholic >>myself, I don't know a lot about how that works. I >>know that there are some evangelical churches that >>support gay people. Are there maybe some Catholic >>churches like this, as well? 🤔 Also! I remember >>from our past conversations that you're still open to >>a relationship with God; it's just that the church >>doesn't seem like a good fit. Would it help your >>parents (specifically your Mom 👩) to know this? >>Every parent and Christian is different, ofc, but, >>putting myself in your parent's shoes in this >>situation, I would be much more at ease if I knew my >>son still believed and had faith, even if it differed >>somewhat from my own. >> >>Something else, just to be totally honest: I've kinda >>known this about you for quite some time now, Brods >>👨‍🎤 . So I think, maybe, your parents - since >>they know you a lot better than I do, obvs - will >>maybe not be as shocked as you think they will be? I >>don't know for sure, ofc, but that's one direction I >>could see that conversation maybe going. I do know >>that they both love you tremendously and I believe >>that, whether or not they're caught off guard by the >>news, they will come around and support you. And when >>*that* happens, you'll feel a tremendous surge of >>relief. <em>Now</em> is the hard part: the >>anticipation and uncertainty of having the >>conversation. But just remember that, in the end, it >>really will be okay 👌. >> >>>You should have seen Jay's face 🤨 when I told him >>>Mr. Alf. His face turned totally white ⚪️. But >>>he was 👌 about it once he decided I was not joking >>>🙃, and has been really nice to me since then. He >>>says he will help me tell mom 👩 and dad 👨 if I >>>want. >> >>Jay is such an amazing big brother. 🥹❤️ I think >>it would definitely be helpful to have him there when >>you tell your parents. >> >>Another thought I just had: I know Jay gives you good >>advice and you're smart to listen to him! I was >>wondering if there was anyone else you can ask for >>advice, specifically an adult who knows your parents >>really well and can give you some pointers on how best >>to tell them? Like maybe a grandparent or aunt or >>uncle you'd feel comfortable confiding in? 🤔 >> >>>I can't decide if I should tell mom 👩 and dad 👨 >>>together, or at different times. I have read a lot >>>about this and watched a lot of videos 🎞️ on the >>>Internet Mr. Alf, but I still don't know >>>🤷‍♂️. Only a few friends and Jay know so >far >>>Mr. Alf, but I am afraid they might find out if I >>>don't tell them soon. Abel knows. Hannah, the >>>drummer 🥁 in my band knows. A few other girls >>>know. Jay says if I told girls 🧒🏻 probably it >>>won't be a secret 🤫 for very long. >> >>Jay is probably right about that lol! But maybe, if >>your parents found out about it from someone else, it >>would be easier for you in the long run? Cos they >>would surely ask you about it and you wouldn't have >>the stress of initiating the conversation? Or would it >>be easier for you to be the one to bring up the >>conversation? 🤔 >> >>Just things to think about, buddy. I do believe that, >>however it happens, it will be okay 👌 in the end. >>And, no matter what, you have my support Brody >>👨‍🎤. Please keep me updated on how things are >>going when you're able to. 🫂 >> >>>>>I don't think I really want to say that Armadillo >>🦔 >>>>>Roadkill ☠️ has a style right now Mr. Alf. We >>>>>are creating our own style. Obviously, we do have >>>>>influences. Like Depeche' Mode and The Cure and >>>>>Taylor Swift and Billie Eilish. But if we put a >>label >>>>>on ourselves to fit a style or an artist, we can't >>>>>make our own style. Do you understand? See, we >>want >>>>>people to listen 👂🏻 to our original music >🎶 >>>>>and they can make their own decisions 🧠 what we >>>>>sound like. >>>>I love this approach, Brody 👨‍🎤. It's very >>>>artistic! Yes, I understand what you are saying. >And, >>>>no matter what style, I think Armadillo Roadkill >>would >>>>be a band I would enjoy. My favorite 🎶 artists >are >>>>ones that don't fit neatly into one genre or style. >>>>This is a very cool and organic way to do music, >>Brody >>>>👨‍🎤! 🤩 >>>I think 💭 so too Mr. Alf. I like thinking about >>>music 🎶 so much more than other things. I >started >>>my guitar 🎸 lessons, and I told the teacher >>>👨🏻‍🏫 I want to explore lots of different >>>styles. So he says he will give me a little bit of >>>everything 🎵 to practice on it. He was very >>>surprised 😮 how much I learned from Elliot. >> >>That's really great, Brods 👨‍🎤! I bet, with >>what you learned from Elliot and what you learn in >>your 🎸 lessons, you'll be so amazing on the guitar. >>😍 And that's going to help give Amradillo Roadkill >>have such a cool, signature sound. 🤩 >> >>>>>And no! I will not be getting a leather paddle 🏓 >>>>>for my mom 👩 to carry in her purse 👜! I >don't >>>>>think you are completely joking 🙃 about that Mr. >>>>>Alf. >>>>Oh! You don't think I am completely joking, Brods >>>>👨‍🎤? Well I am. 😁 >>>I am a little old probably to have to get a spanking >>>🏓 like that anyway Mr. Alf. >> >>Yeah that's a good point, buddy! But hmmmmm, if you >>were, imagine how effective it would be! 😉 >> >>> Mom 👩 told me when >>>I talked 🗣️ to her that I remember well enough >>>that I can wait until I get home 🏡 if I need to be >>>spanked 🏓. >> >>I think that's a good plan, tbh! I always think that, >>whenever possible, spankings 🏓 should be private. >>The sting is enough, there's no point in adding the >>embarrassment of witnesses into it, if it can be >>avoided. >> >>>>>The paddle this lady was carrying had a handle >>>>>of some kind on it, and the leather part that hits >>the >>>>>bottom 🔴 was maybe four or five inches wide. >Not >>>>>as wide as our Tongue 👅 Depressor here at home >>🏡 >>>>>Mr. Alf, and probably not as big as the paddle >🏓 >>>>>you spanked you boys 🧒🏻🧒🏻 with. It has >>to >>>>>fit in a purse 👜, so it can't be too wide or >>long. >>>>>But believe me, the way that boy 👦 cried I think >>it >>>>>hurts plenty even though it is not quite as big! >>>>This is so interesting! Thanks for telling me about >>>>it, buddy. And I agree with you: I bet a paddle like >>>>that would definitely get the message across. >>>Well it sure sounded 🔊 like it Mr. Alf!!!!! >> >>I bet, Brody 👨‍🎤!! I imagine he could be heard >>from even outside the restrooms. Imagine just going >>about your day, shopping for cat food and doggie chew >>toys, and hearing a naughty little boy getting his >>bare bottom paddled! 😳 >> >>>>>Well, goodbye 👋 Mr. Alf!!!!! Brody 👨‍🎤 >>>>Bye 👋 for now, Brody 👨‍🎤! Enjoy the rest >>of >>>>your week and keep earning points with your parents. >>>>:-) <3 >>>I need points Mr. Alf. The things I read 📖 say >>>that if you are going to tell your parents 👩👨 >>>something like I am that you need to be prepared for >>>anything. So I do need points. But also, I need >to >>>be ready if they do get really angry 😡 with me or >>>something. I need your luck 🍀 Mr. Alf. >> >>Well you have all of the luck 🍀 I can send you, >>Brods 👨‍🎤. And my prayers 🙏! I truly hope >>that everything works out well for you and that you >>have peace ✌️ about it all. ❤️ >> >>>Goodbye 👋 Mr. Alf. Brody 👨‍🎤. >> >>Bye 👋 for now, Brody 👨‍🎤! Have a good >>weekend, I'll be thinking about you. 🫂🍀🙏🫂
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