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>> I was angrier than usual as I had a lot to do that >> day. Perhaps that is why he thought spanking was a >> certainty? > >Yeah I think so! I think little kids learn quite fast >that when Mommy is displeased then a spanking happens >quickly and then Mommy isn't angry any more and >everything is better. (Except for the sore bottom.) >And I think that maybe kind of conditions us to think >that we *need* a spanking if Mummy is displeased. > >Mr PP has posted before about how his younger teenage >son in particular sometimes starts a conversation even >tho it's obvious that the result of the conversation >will be a spanking. So he prefers the sore bottom to >the feeling of guilt. I guess it can work the same way >even at a younger age. > >> My thought process is anyone >> that voluntarily bares their bottom for me like that >> obviously needs a spanking. > >Yes unfortunately even from my perspective I can't >disagree with that! > >I think Alf has commented before about some situations >being an opportunity that just obviously ends up with >a sore bottom. I think once that was using the paddle >for a bare bottom spanking when he could've just used >his hand. (He said "it was right there so I thought I >might as well use it".) And other times just single >spanks that bottoms seemed to be inviting. > >> And yes I would say "some red" or >> "crying" on your scale above. > >wow that is quite some sting :D :D :D > >> Not many parents on here I guess. Most of the >entries >> are from the spankees perspective. > >There are quite a few parents and other adults here >but usually us kids are noiser :) > >> What did you think? Should I have spanked or let him >> off? > >It's complicated. One thing that occurred to me. Is >that when my parents have "discussions" with me about >something I did wrong (what we call "the lecture"). >Then it never makes a difference if I apologise or >promise not to do something again - if they've decided >that I need a spanking then I get one anyway. > >So from that perspective, maybe if you had already >decided *not* to spank then anything Tim said >shouldn't have affected the decision you already made. >That's if the same principle works in reverse. > >But the other side is that, like you already said, if >he felt guilty enough to ask for a spanking then he >obviously needed one. And he clearly felt better after >getting the spanking. So obviously spanking was the >right thing to do. > >And again that's something both Mr PP and Alf has >mentioned. That sometimes there's tension in the >household that builds up. And someone needs a >spanking. And then once someone has got a spanking >then everyone feels better. Which seems to have >happened with this incident too. > >And now you haven't had to spank either of them for >over a week, so the good effects are fairly long >lasting as well!
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