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>My older daughter (16, I'll call Sara as it rhymes) is >a childrens' swim instructor. Their classes are in a >separate indoor pool room from the lap pools so the >noise is contained, with the locker rooms and showers >in between. > >After dropping off Sara, while driving I received a >very concerning phone call about her. I U-turned and >met her at the pool just before class was to begin. We >had some words in the corner. I was firm and she began >to get snotty. I gave some leeway given she was at >work but eventually I had enough of her language. I >told her "okay then, we'll talk about this in a >minute" and went to the changing room. > >There's always a spare bar of soap and cloth rag in my >purse, which I prepared for use. Another lady who was >washing her hands looked a little confused since each >sink had a dispenser. Back in the pool area, Sara had >already gotten her feet wet when I grabbed her wrist >and we marched back into the locker room. I told the >kids "class, Miss Sara and I are having a meeting". A >mother who I'm familiar with kept an eye on them. > >We stopped baside the sinks and I told her to face me >and pull down her shoulder straps. She protested like >she didn't know what was in store. I grabbed her by >the chin: "young lady if I have to, you will be >staying home for a week!" inferring her bottom would >receive a sound paddling. So she peeled down her red >lifeguard swimsuit, just as a girl about 10 walked in >from behind. >"Now open your mouth" >"No please mom! you can't do this here!" >"Any more backtalk and you're getting another today" >I shoved the rag in, turned her to face the mirror, >and went to work soaping up her mouth. Since she was >now on the clock, we went through the routine at a >fast pace. When in the mirror she spotted two older >women glancing over and chatting by the lockers, one >with a smirk, she started crying. > >As we initiated the cleaning phase, a little girl >approached: >"Hey Miss Sara's mommy, what are you doing?" >"Miss Sara has a dirty mouth and needs it washed" >"Oooh why are her boobies out?" >"So her suit doesn't get soapy dear" >(when soap dripped I wiped them with a towel) >Woman with hands on hips, cracking a smile: >"...kids these days, no modesty" >Sara continued sobbing. > >I had her open wide and take a good look in the mirror >before spitting out the soap. The same lady kindly >reminded us that class was waiting and offered to wipe >the counter for us with a towel. I thanked her and >marched to the showers. We went to the handicapped >spot, as it has a removable showerhead, and a folding >bench which Sara could bend over and support herself. >That way I could rinse off any soap from her upper >body and mouth without getting it on her suit which I >adjusted a bit. While I gave her a succinct lecture >she was still crying in embarrassment. > >We stopped by the mirror so Sara and the other woman >could see just how clean her mouth was. Another woman >chuckled and quipped how obedient Sara had become. >While she spit out some more and wiped her eyes, I >directed the girls in the room back to the pool. > >I took her by the wrist out the door at a normal pace, >myself calm and a little wet, Miss Sara almost >recomposed but still sniffling. As we walked around >the pool, you could feel as though all eyes were on >us. Some boys about 9-10 were mumbling and a coworker, >a young man around my daughter's age, was trying to >appear distracted. When we reached the railing and >steps, she didn't get in, instead wiped her eyes. One >of the girls asked if she was ok. Sara stood up >straight and tall like a big girl, not one who got a >ferocious talking-to, and took a few steps. I blew her >whistle which I had in hand. >"Line up kids, Miss Sara's class has started!" >One of the older woman from the changing room had just >stepped in, shook her head, and chuckled again. > >I departed feeling quite satisfied that day. In fact, >I would consider it the most effective mouth soaping >I've given. > > > >>I indeed am still around. I look forward to your >>reiteration of her soaping at work. I do hope there >>were plenty of witnesses on hand to verify the >>pristine condition of her mouth. >> >> >> >> >>Ashley, if you're still here, pardon me for taking so >>>long. I lost the link to this forum and life has kept >>>me busy. Anyway that particular 'trip' was to the >>>changing/shower room at the swim center where she >>>works, it's a bit of a story. >>> >>>>Don't stop there. Tell us about your oldest daughter >>>>and her trip to a different bathroom. :) >>> >>>>Does anyone have current experiences with giving or >>>>>receiving a mouthsoaping? I attempted to reply to a >>>>>message from Donna, but it was apparently archived. >>>> >>>>Hello! Quite surprised as I'm new here and was going >>>>to make a case for mouth soaping. >>>> >>>>I do it with my daughters 12 and 16, and son 14, >>>>usually to replace rather than supplement a >spanking. >>>>Sometimes it's easier and more effective to >>discipline >>>>the source of the crime. I started when they were >>>>around 6, and has continued similarly to how I was >>>>raised. >>>> >>>>I typically give a soaping in a washroom with the >>door >>>>open, but have also given some in the kitchen if I >>>>need to make an example of the kids. >>>> >>>>First they're to remove their top and bra if on. We >>>>want to keep those garments clean and dry especially >>>>if outside home. I usually have a brush nearby for >>the >>>>girls' behind if they hesitate or don't keep their >>>>hands down. This is no time for modesty, and my god, >>>>teenage girls have even shorter memories now. >>>> >>>>I use a simple bar of unscented soap, some from >>>>hotels, but instead of sticking it directly in their >>>>mouth, I lather it in a rag under hot water. When >>>>sufficiently bubbly, I use the rag to soap around >the >>>>insides of their mouth. Not just the tongue but >>around >>>>both sides of their teeth and gums. I'll have them >>>>spit out excess foam before working around inside >>>>their cheeks. >>>> >>>>When thoroughly soaped up, they're to spit the >lather >>>>into the sink. As a reminder I ask them to describe >>or >>>>repeat verbatim their offensive language. My >>daughters >>>>have given me sass, in which case we start again and >>>>have called others to watch. >>>> >>>>Next I resoap the rag and set the timer for one >>>>minute, during which they must suck all of the soap >>>>out to coat their tongue and get into those nooks, >>>>followed by a good swish to get under the tongue. >>>> >>>>A softer cloth such as a clean dish rag is used to >>>>scrub the mouth and tongue, and really clean the >>filth >>>>out. This period is when the child begins to learn >>>>their lesson, like when their will is broken during >a >>>>good spanking and the real crying begins. >>>> >>>>If you've never witnessed a mouth soaping let me >tell >>>>you, by now it's actually somewhat exciting. >>>> >>>>Their mouth is always sparkling clean following a >>>>rinse, well several. They might need some >>>>"encouragement" as we don't have all day nor need to >>>>waste water. I take a good look inside to confirm my >>>>work before having them see in a mirror for >>>>themselves. >>>> >>>>The cleansed is required to turn for the audience to >>>>view their shameful wet and soapy state while I give >>>>them a few words. The girls find this particularly >>>>embarrassing especially if wearing cosmetics. I have >>>>the others inspect and verify that the naughty mouth >>>>is now pristine. >>>> >>>>To drive the lesson home, they are to explain >>>>themselves without using any dirty language, state >>the >>>>consequences if they repeat it, and apologize. >>>> >>>>As you can imagine their face and chest always >>require >>>>some wiping, as does the surrounding area. I only >>>>assist if we have to get going. Only after all is >>>>spotless and dry are they allowed their top, and bra >>>>if removed. >>>> >>>>Mouth soaping seems like a lost practice here, in >>fact >>>>most younger parents I've met have forgotten or >>aren't >>>>even aware of it, and some are eager to try. With >the >>>>ubiquitous snotty kids of today, it's a viable >option >>>>that unlike spanking, can be done in practically any >>>>washroom, as my older daughter has recently >>>>experienced.

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