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>>Clara, >How do you spank usually for punishment and >how would that differ you think from a just because >one? > >Hi, Sarahma, > >I know that a lot of parents give a less severe >spanking when they are giving "just because" spankings >than they do when they give a punishment spanking for >a given offense. In my case, however, there is really >no difference between the two. Each time I spank I do >it just about the same and my goal is to take my time, >make the spanking last, but always keep it within >appropriate limits. Without going beyond what the >spanked child can stand, I like to spank until the >child really is crying hysterically and does either a >wild dance when itis over, or sometimes just collapses >bawling over my lap when I stop--just goes "boneless" >is the way I put it when that happens. More often the >wild dance that follows after I stop spanking tells me >I have done a really good job. >I would add that I rarely have to give punishment >spankings these days. Very good behavior and lots of >love toward me are the hallmarks of the time in >between the "just because" spankings I give. Clara

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