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>I’m 13, a boy, and yes I am sometimes spanked. > >>Hi, Denis, and thank you for your comments. I will try >>to answer your questions. >> >>>Now that this has >happened a couple of times, have >>you noticed any visual and audible clues that your son >>is about to ejaculate? >> Yes, as I am spanking him I can tell whether he >>is losing his erection (which sometimes he does), or >>whether he is becoming more aroused and getting ready >>to ejaculate. When it is the latter, he may be making >>"Ouch, ouch, ouch!" noises, but he also begins to >>breath much harder and faster and I can feel him on my >>thigh very hard and rigid, and I can tell he is about >>to ejacualate. As I say, I am ready now to deal with >>that if it happens, so I don't worry about it and when >>he does, it is a short interruption for a quick >>clean-up, and then he goes back down in place and I >>continue the spanking. >> >>>What do you do while he is mid climax? Do you pause >>>spanking? >> Yes, as I said, I stop spanking to let him >>ejaculate, have him kneel up for a quick clean-up, and >>then I lie him back down and continue. >> >>>You said that despite the ongoing spanking, he >clearly >>>enjoys clinacing on your lap. Has he said this and if >>>not, how do you know? >> Denis, I can't tell from your name if you are >>male or female, but at the end of an ejaculation, >>males groan with pleasure and release and the spurting >>slows and stops, and the erection goes limp and >>flacid. There is no mistaking that and his sighs and >>expressions are those of pleasure, even though he was >>crying moments before and his face may be covered with >>tears. >> >>>How bare is he when spanked? ???? >> I am sure I pointed out that I undress him >>before I start spanking him, so he is naked. >> >>>I think you are right that most boys when puberty >sets >>>in do both dread and crave spankings by their moms >and >>>typically masturbate after spankings. That said, are >>>you concerned that allowing him to climax >mid-spanking >>>could be harmful to his development? >> Why would climaxing on a pause mid-spanking be >>any more harmful to his development than climaxing >>before or shortly after a spanking? Do you have some >>information that suggests that stopping a spanking >>long enough to pause and let a boy climax somehow >>hurts a boy's development? I've heard of some mothers >>who get angry if a boy gets an erection before a >>spanking and who spank his genital area directly to >>make him "lose it"--and I can see how that might >>easily hurt a boy's physical and emotional development >>where normal erections are concerned--but pausing to >>just let him climax before continuing seems harmless >>to me. >> >>>How does he react after the spanking? Have you >>>discussed the situation with him? >> I have not discussed his ejaculations with him >>since they began happening. I have treated them as >>unintended (by him) and normal reactions under the >>circumstances, which I think they are. When I comfort >>him after his spankings, holding him on my lap and >>hugging him and kissing him and rubbing his head and >>neck and back while he cries them out, he is very >>loving and affectionate with me. After the first time >>he ejaculated while getting spanked, he was very >>clearly appreciative that I did not get mad at him >>about what happened. As his crying quieted down he >>said, "I'm sorry, Mom. I didn't mean to do that!" And >>I told him I knew he didn't, and not to worry about >>it. You didn't do it deliberately. If something like >>that happens, we'll just ignore it and continue. >>You're a good boy and you took your spanking very well >>and I'm proud of how well you take your spankings." >>And that was that, and we haven't mentioned the >>ejaculations since, and sometimes they happen and >>sometimes they don't. >> >>>You also mention that although it is not the reason >>>you spank him, you enjoy having him bare bottomed >>>across your lap and hand spanking him. What is it >that >>>you find pleasurable about it? >> Denis, that is the only one of your questions I >>find a little bit absurd. I don't know if you are male >>or female, or what your age is, or whether you are a >>youngster yourself or an adult. If I told you I found >>chocolate cake pleasurable to eat, would you ask me to >>explain what is pleasurable about that? If I said I >>found it pleasurable to sit on a covered deck in the >>summer and listen to an evening rain hitting the room >>above me, would you ask me what do I find pleasurable >>about that? Pleasurable means that something gives one >>pleasure, that it pleases one to do, or see or feel >>something. >> >>Now how about telling us something about yourself. Are >>you a youngster or an adult? Are you spanked now, or >>were you ever spanked? If you have children, do you >>spank them--and if so, please tell us about that--how >>you do it, how often, and if you do spank tell us >>whether you find it a distasteful task or a >>pleasurable task when it needs to be done. >> >>I'll look forward to hearing from you. Marge

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