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>>Hello Marge. I hope you don't mind me responding to >>your post, but I just wanted to say that I found your >>account very interesting. You seem to be very >>knowledgeable when it comes to spanking, and I really >>appreciate how understanding you are as a mother. >> >>From the perspective of a young man, I think you are >>handling things quite well. I am curious, do you think >>this reaction enhances the spanking experience in any >>way? > >Hi, Chris. Thank you for your comments and questions. >Please feel free to respond anytime to any of my >posts. I appreciate getting the views of others as >long as they are polite and respectful. The views and >comments of others can be helpful and instructive and, >very important I feel, supportive. > >You ask if I think think this reaction of my son >(having ejaculations while being spanked) enhances the >spanking experience in any way? That is a very good >question. I have only my own experience to go on, but >in my case I definitely think it has enhanced the >spanking experience for my son, and for me as well. >For example, my son told me how appreciative he was >that I did not get angry with him the first time this >involuntary reaction happened with him. When it first >happened it caught him by surprise, too, and he >thought I would be furious with him and give him an >extra hard punishment and generally be really angry >with him, and he was surprised and very appreciative >when that didn't happen. > >It was a great relief to him when I simply paused his >spanking, cleaned up the mess and then continued, >completing one of his regular spankings after his >"accident", and then after he danced that out, he was >thrilled when I gave him the usual hugs and kisses and >comfort I always give him after a spanking. He was >extra loving and affectionate with me after that. He >spent a lot of time in my lap and I got lots of hugs >and kisses from him every day. As it happened, the >next time I spanked him a few days later, he didn't >have that reaction, he just lost his erection after >his spanking got underway for a few minutes of steady >spanking. > >Interestingly, he lost the erection again on the next >spanking, and it was not until the next one that I >could tell he was still hard and rigid and building up >to another orgasm as I spanked him, and when he >exploded that time I was ready for that with >washcloths and a basin of water and a towel right next >to me to catch his fluids, so again it was no trouble, >just a brief interruption. I did notice though, that >on that second time, when he was not terrified when he >realized what was going to happen--like he was the >first time--he really got into it, riding on my thigh >and using it to stroke his erection, so--if >anything--he had an even bigger and longer explosion >than he did the first time--so, again, I feel that did >enhance the whole experience for him. His groans and >sighs when he came that second time were very loud and >prolonged. > >Again, since this reaction by him was a completely >normal and understandable event under all the >circumstances, I didn't see then--and I don't see >now--that there is any harm in allowing him to have >that kind of release while he is being spanked. Some >people say a spanking is a punishment and there should >be absolutely no pleasure involved in it for the one >spanked, but I really think that is largely nonsense. > >Many, perhaps even most, kids have always gotten some >vicarious pleasures out of the whole business of being >spanked. You have the surprising but pleasurable >excitement that so many boys and girls often feel when >a spanking for them is announced. They don't plan it, >and they can't explain it, but it is there for many >and it is very real. It is the same kind of excitement >and titillation that many boys or girls feel at the >time they are told they must undress and bare their >bottoms or get naked for a spanking. It is the same >with the feelings they have afterwards, after they >dance out a spanking or when told to stand in a corner >with their bottoms bared or completely naked. They >feel pain, and some real embarrassment, but many also >feel a secret excitement--thrills up and down their >spines, when they must take part in those spanking >rituals. All of those aspects of spankings bring with >them a mixture of pain and discomfort and, yes, some >vicarious pleasure that excites, thrills and >titillates the boys and girls who are spanked. So does >the excited pride most kids take afterwards in looking >at (in mirrors) and comparing the very brightness and >redness of their spanked areas with others. Such >things for most kids are all "pain mixed with >pleasure" experiences. > >There are exceptions, sure, but it is nonsense to >pretend that most kids do not experience some pleasure >along with the rituals and pain of bare-bottom >spankings--and many kids get a LOT of pleasure mixed >in with the painful experience of getting spanked. So, >yes, in my opinion, the admittedly small but >pleasurable aspects of the whole business of getting >spanked had, in my son's case, probably been enhanced >quite a bit by the fact that now, occasionally, he is >spanked to orgasm while still over my knee--and by the >fact that his mother stays calm and does not go >ballistic when he does that. Your question made me >stop and think about that aspect, and those are my >honest thoughts on the matter, Chris. My best to you, >Marge

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