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>Hi Marge. > >You guessed that I may be "quite young (teens or >20s—am I right?)" > >I can only wish I was. >I would say that I'm past my second childhood lol (in >another 7 1/2 months I will have seen 8 decades). > > >The following was how I was spanked as a child, hence >my interest in spanking I believe. > >https://www.boyzbeingboyz.com/gallery31/swinging.jpg > >I look forward to reading more of your spanking >sessions with your son, including any results those >spankings bring forth. > >I do like that you comfort and cuddle him >afterwards...I was never awarded that comfort after my >spankings. > >>Dear Scamptoo and Rachel, thank you both for your >>comments. >> >>Scamptoo, Reading on this forum for a few weeks now, I >>have seen many of your posts to others, and they are >>always thoughtful, reasonable, balanced and—maybe >>the most important of all—never rabidly angry and >>negative like some people get when they read something >>they don’t agree with. You seem to me to be a very >>remarkable man for someone whom I believe is still >>quite young (teens or 20s—am I right?). Thank you >>for your very kind words, which having read many of >>your thoughts, I find to be a very supportive comment >>indeed. >> >>Rachel, I could say the same for you. I have read and >>enjoyed many of your comments on this forum. The point >>you make here—that getting spanked immediately >>post-orgasm can be agony and tortuous—I believe to >>be right on the money. There are a fair number of >>people who post on this subject who report that they >>never get aroused before or while being spanked—but >>only do so after it is all over (when they then do get >>aroused and masturbate while crying it out). I accept >>that this is true for many people. >> >>I also believe that many others—and I fell into this >>category myself when I was young and being spanked >>myself—start getting aroused with the announcement >>that they are to be spanked is made, get even more >>aroused when the undressing and baring takes place, >>and who then—despite the pain—get fiercely aroused >>while being spanked. In those cases, it becomes a kind >>of race to see if one can hold off the orgasm until >>the spanking is over. >> >>I do remember that when I did orgasm while being >>spanked, the pain of the smacks after that—exactly >>as you say—were much more painful than when an >>orgasm was building but not yet reached during a >>spanking. >> >>I feel pretty sure, Rachel, that your mother probably >>did know when you were aroused and had an orgasm >>building while she was spanking you. The movement of >>your bottom and hips, the increased grinding and >>writhing on her lap which you would have >>exhibited—just as I now see with my son—and even >>your breathing and panting while you were yelping and >>bawling with the pain—probably all told her that you >>were building up to an orgasm. If she saw or felt >>dampness between your legs while you were being >>spanked, that would also be a strong tip for her to >>pick up on. >> >>And, if your mother is the devilish and teasing (and, >>yes, fun-loving) mom that she sounds like she was from >>your notes, she probably did spank you longer knowing >>that if she got you to orgasm on her lap, the spanks >>after that would be much more stinging and painful. >>She may have, as I do with my son, have enjoyed adding >>that element of extra pain to the spanking she was >>giving you. >> >>With my son, after he orgasms and after a quick >>clean-up, when I start spanking him again the volume >>of his bawling and the much more vigorous bouncing of >>his bottom and kicking of his legs is very evident. >>And—probably like your mother—I have to admit >>(blush, blush) that I like that a lot. I’m not sure >>of your age, Rachel—reading so many posts such facts >>can become blurred unless I go back to check—but if >>you are still being spanked, you probably can’t ask >>your mother about that—but if you are past spanking >>age, you probably could ask her if she knew when you >>were building to an orgasm and if she spanked you >>longer to give you that extra post-orgasm pain. >> >>Well, you could ask, but whether you’d get a >>truthful answer is a question. Few parents want to >>admit they enjoy (within reason, without going to >>excess) doing something to increase the pain of a >>spanking while they are giving it, but I will be frank >>and admit that I do things for that purpose. Like I >>give my son and daughter a lot of “breaks” when I >>spank them, not just for their benefit, but because I >>can usually spank them much longer if I am generous >>with the breaks to let them cry it out and regain some >>control while I am still spanking. >> >>Does that make me a mean, mean, wicked mother, Rachel? >>Well, anyway, I am honest, right? And the whole idea >>of giving them a good spanking is helped along when I >>can spank them a bit longer, isn’t it? Lots of love >>to you, Rachel. Drop me a quick note if you can to let >>me know your age, how often you are spanked (or were >>spanked), and any details about your spankings you >>think I’d find interesting. If you are past that age >>now, you can tell me and others how it used to be. >>Love, Marge

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