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>Dear Nick, you really are a bright boy and you really >do have a real understanding of some things that so >many people miss or don't think about where spankings >are concerned. Those last two spankings I referred to >were indeed unexpected by me, too. I gave Nick that >spanking, one I hadn't intended to give him, really to >reward my ten-year old daughter for what I thought was >a brilliant bit of reasoning for a girl of her >age--and for the clever way she came up with it and >"concluded" that Nick really should get another >spanking for his "accident". > >She really floored me with that, to be frank, and when >I had her go up and put that reasoning to Nick as to >why he should be spanked by me for his "accident", he >was also floored and had no comeback. And with me >standing right there he sort of figured and accepted >that he was going to be spanked again and that was >that. He was not, by the way, upset and he made no >protest at all. He just looked "defeated" as soon as I >sat down on his bed he went over my lap and, let's >say, the die was cast. > >The bottom line though in what happened is the fact >that I really do feel at their present ages that both >of these children benefit from fairly frequent >spankings, so sometimes I do spank both of them for >very little cause or even no specific cause. They both >seem nervous and anxious when a spanking is announced >like that, but on whole they accept the situation very >well. A big reason, I feel sure, is that they both >really do enjoy seeing the other one spanked. In the >situation I described, my daughter got her "prize" for >her inventive reasoning--seeing her brother spanked >again--and then HE got his "prize" in return when I >spanked her on the admittedly "thin" grounds that she >had snitched on her brother and had deliberately got >him spanked. > >The truth is that after a spanking is over on any >occasion, and after they have had some time to >recover, and once the worst of the pain has abated, >they both always bounce back quickly and in short >order both are in a good mood again. With that in >mind, Nick, when one or both has gone five or six days >without a spanking, for example, and especially on a >Friday or Saturday night when that is the case, I will >sometimes take that boy or girl by the shoulder after >supper and say, "Before you go off and get involved >with all your electronic gadgets this evening, I've >noticed that you've gone quite a while without a >spanking as of tonight, so why don't we go in the >living room right now and do something about that." >So, as you can see, they are used to getting spanked >like for no BIG offense or reason but only because I >feel they both need regular spankings to keep them on >their best behavior. > >In my opinion, the spankings I gave them on the >occasion that I described in that last note fell >closer to that kind of situation than to the "I'm >going to spank you for the naughty thing you just >did" category. And that is true, even though Nick had >just been spanked a little earlier. His spanking was >still a "this is kind of a flimsy reason but you know >I feel you can always use an extra spanking at your >age", and since it was his sister's reasoning that >brought it on there was an underlying humor to the >situation as well. And it was clear to me that neither >one was upset or angry or feeling really mistreated on >that occasion. > >In fact, after they both cried out those spankings, >they both seemed to appreciate the humor of what >happened and the fact that they both ended up getting >spanked was important. They kidded each other a lot at >dinner and that evening about those spankings --but I >also noted that while I knew my daughter was >disappointed that her brother did NOT orgasm again on >that second spanking, she didn't tease him about that. > >Your other point, Nick, is also very well taken. Given >how much they like to see each other spanked, and >given that they are both spanked often enough that a >spanking is not a big, big deal to either of them, >they may well soon start playing "house"--where they >alternate playing mummy and daddy and giving each >other playful spankings--playful but "on the bare", >and maybe not completely playful. I think a lot more >kids do this than parents realize. I used to do this >myself with my brother and my cousins before I was >even a tween--so maybe they have already done a little >of this, as you suggest. In any case, a lot of kids do >this and it is pretty harmless usually, and while it >was alert of you to mention it, I agree with you that >it is a pretty natural thing for kids to do and I >wouldn't try to prevent it. > >I remember years ago visiting with a cousin of mine >for a weekend when we were about eleven. We were >playing house in her room and she was the mother and >she put a large "girl" doll of hers on her bed, >flipped up the skirt and gave it a very hard >hand-spanking, and then she said, "Mum won't let me >use the strap on my dolly when I spank it because it >tears the material." And that was how I found out SHE >was getting the strap herself at that time, which >indeed turned out to be the case. On that Saturday >afternoon, for some misconduct of hers, we all trooped >into the living room while her father laid her on the >couch naked and strapped her bottom and thighs quite >hard and long, which I thought was a shocking thing to >do to an eleven year old girl. However, she was soon >back playing with me in less than two hours, and since >we didn't leave until Monday morning, she played with >me all day Sunday in a great mood like nothing like >that had happened to her. I never forgot that. Marge

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