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>>Hi, Nadia. Thank you for your note and comments. >> >>You say you don't allow your 15 year old son to squirm >>around >>>on my lap. If he does, I remind him that I'm going to >>>spank him even more for not taking his spanking >>>properly. >> >>Gee, I have to say that surprised me. If a 15 year old >>boy or girl is being spanked hard across a mother's >>lap, it would seem to me almost impossible for the >>child to not squirm around while being spanked. I sit >>in the middle of a couch to spank my son and when I am >>underway and spanking him good his legs kick up and >>down (harmlessly) on the couch to my right, and he >>well frog-kick them as well from time to time as the >>terrible heat is building up in his bottom and on the >>upper backs of his thighs. I have my left hand firmly >>planted in the middle of his lower back to keep him >>from rolling off, and sometimes holding his right >>forearm in place across that same part of his back, >>but as I spank his bottom does bounce up and down as >>the spanks last--and since I am stinging that area >>very good I would be amazed if he didn't bounce his >>bottom around and squirm (as you say) as he is getting >>spanked hard. I always did the same when I was >>spanked, and so did my brother and sister. I have seen >>other children spanked (both when I was a child and as >>an adult) and I have never seen a child getting a good >>spanking who did not squirm, wriggle, kick his or her >>legs and generally react to the hard smacks >>landing--even though all are held firmly in place and >>do not roll off or push away and get loose while being >>spanked. Does your son really remain still and get >>more spanking if he squirms while being spanked hard? >> >>>I also will never punish for an involuntary >>>ejaculation. However, that isn't likely to happen if >>>he remains still while being spanked, so that's the >>>behavior I focus on. >> >>I am very glad you will never spank for an involuntary >>ejaculation, Nadia. Some parents are so unreasonable >>about something the child simply can not >>help--something that is, as you so correctly say, >>involuntary. I commend you for that. But I do worry >>about your "no moving" or more spanking rules. I >>really think it is not possible for most kids (if not >>all) to "stay still" when being soundly spanked. >> >>All the best to you. I have enjoyed a number of the >>posts by you that I have seen. Marge > >hi nadia, it´s great to read your article on spanking >your boy being in puberty right now like my nephew who >is almost 15 years now. well, i have the same problem >with him since he got spanked over the last weeks. >before i start spanking him i always take my dress or >my skirt off. i found out he always gets so heavily >erected when i take him over my lap. when i give him >the first swats by hand very firmly he starts moving >around heavily and i can feel his erection on my >thighs. so i hold him very firmly and when i take the >carpet beater to give him a real good spanking then he >starts to masturbate heavily coming to his peak in a >while leaving his mess on my pantyhose ... >afterwards i give him another portion of spanking >which serves him very well thogh he is crying loudly >because of his bare red bottom. what shall i do with >this situation? can you give me a good advice? >love, belinda

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