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>>>>My name is Marge and I am a single mother with a son >>>>now 12 and a daughter 10. Both are spanked fairly >>>>frequently. My son began getting erections shortly >>>>after he turned 10 when I would undress him for a >>>>spanking but as soon as I began spanking him with my >>>>hand over my lap it would go away. About two weeks >>>>ago, however, a couple of nights before Christmas, >he >>>>was erected when I put him over my lap for a bedtime >>>>spanking, but that time it did not disappear while I >>>>spanked him. I was spanking him good and he was >>>>starting to cry hard and “riding” up and down >and >>>>back and forth on my lap and all of a sudden he >>>>ejaculated on my bare thighs. (I always pull my >skirt >>>>up out of the way when I spank so my son and >daughter >>>>are not rubbing their fronts on rough material like >>>>woolen or jeans skirts or shorts or denim slacks.) >>>> >>>>I knew he didn’t do it on purpose, so I wasn’t >>>>upset. I just stood him up and used a box of >Kleenex >>>>on the end table to wiped up the mess on my lap and >>>>his front, and then I put him back down and took my >>>>time and finished his spanking. I spanked him two >>>>times last week after that and he was erected at the >>>>start each time but he did not ejaculate, his >>erection >>>>just went soft as I spanked him as it always has. >>>> >>>>However, I have been keeping a basin of water and a >>>>washcloth and towel handy now in case he had another >>>>accident, and last night it happened. He again >>>>ejaculated on my thigh while I was spanking him. It >>>>was no problem since I had everything I needed handy >>>>to quickly clean my bare lap and his front and I had >>>>the towel spread out to my left so nothing got on >the >>>>living room couch. Again, I just cleaned everything >>up >>>>quickly and went on with his spanking. >>>> >>>>Here are my questions. First, so it is clear, I >>>>don’t actually mind him doing this--I think it is >a >>>>natural and understandable reaction for a boy of his >>>>age, and it is an easy and quick clean-up with the >>>>washcloth and towel. My question is, is this a good >>>>and okay way to handle the situation? What do other >>>>mothers do with teen boys who have this problem? >>>> >>>>I have been aware for over a year that he almost >>>>always has ejaculations into washcloths on his bed >>>>while crying it out AFTER his spankings, which I >>think >>>>is normal and expected for a boy of his age, so I >>>>wondered if maybe it might even be a good thing, >>since >>>>it is unplanned and happens naturally, for him to >>have >>>>the emotional release of an ejaculation while he is >>>>being spanked? He clearly enjoys that release a >>>>lot--even if just briefly because his spanking then >>>>continues--but I also have noticed that the spanking >>>>hurts a lot more after that release is over. He >>>>noticeably cries louder and is even more active in >>his >>>>bouncing and kicking after her ejaculates—so, if >we >>>>can put it that way, he is probably getting an even >>>>better and more effective spanking after an >>>>ejaculation. >>>> >>>>Anyway, it is not a big deal and I don’t make any >>>>big fuss about it when it happens, but how do other >>>>mothers feel about this and what do they do? Marge >>> >>>That is a very mature and enlightened way you handle >>>your son's spankings when he ejaculates. >> >>hi dear marge, thanks for your very interesting >>article on spanking your boy. i have same problem with >>my nephew, he is almost 15 now in a few weeks and he >>often masturbates in my bed sleeping with me. so i >>have to punish him, of course after he is finished >>spanking his bare bottom with my hand and later with >>the wooden cooking spoon or carpet beater. >>during the last time i had to realize, however, he >>moves around heavily during the spanking procedure >>when i take him over my lap and so it happened several >>times he starts to masturbate on my lap till he comes >>to his peak ejaculating on my lap. my pantyhose erects >>him heavily but i cannot do away his erection. how >>shall i handle the situation? to give him more swats? >>usually he gets some fifty for some five minutes or >>so. what do you recommend in this case? >>love, belinda > >hallo, liebe marge, >ja du kennst auch aus eigener erfahrung das problem >mit dem masturbieren, was ich in deinem grossartigen >beitrag gelesen habe. ich bin ja verantwortlich für >die richtige und tüchtige erziehung meines neffen, >der jetzt 15 jahre ist. ich bin dir so dankbar für >deinen beitrag! mein neffe masturbiert immer neben mir >im bett in der nacht - oft auch schon am tag und >bekommt dafür zur erziehung eine strenge erziehung >über meinem schoss. ich nehme mir immer viel zeit >dafür, obwohl es freilich anstrengend ist - auch für >mich! erst wärme ich ihm den nackten po mit >kräftigen schlägen mit der hand auf, da hält er >noch relativ still. nach einer kurzen pause folgt dann >die eigentliche bestrafung mit dem breiten kochlöffel >oder dem bewährten teppichklopfer auf den nackten >popo. er windet sich dann schon und schreit dann auch, >doch die verdiente strafe muss schon sein, gerade in >der pubertät. dann fängt er an, auf meinen nackten >knien zu onanieren, reizt sich in dieser position >immer mehr und spritzt trotz der schläge auf den po >auf meine beine ab. da muss ich ihm dann noch mehr >schläge auf seinen nackten hintern geben, damit er es >lernt während der bestrafung liegen zu bleiben. >bleiben wir in verbindung! >alles liebe auch für Dich! >belinda

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