Name (required):

  Expression ^{(Optional mood/title along with your name) Examples: (happy, sad, The Joyful, etc.) help)}

  E-mail address (optional):

* Type your message here:
>>>Jeena, dear Lady, you seem to automatically assume as >>>a given that letting my son ejaculate while he is >>>being spanked is a bad thing. I don't assume that at >>>all. That's where we differ. >>> >>>Obviously there are steps I could take to avoid this >>>happening. I could tell him to go and relieve himself >>>as soon as I see his is erected and before I started >>>to spank him. I could give him a number of hard swats >>>(as you do) to "kill" his erection. I could stop my >>>spanking if he did not appear to be losing his >>>erection after the first 10 to 15 swats, and tell him >>>to go off and deal with his erection before we >>>continued. I could choose to spank him in a different >>>position, leaning over a table, lying on a towel on >>>the couch or on his bed. Of course, Jeena, I >>>understand and can see all those options and others. >>> >>>My point was that I am not at all sure that letting >>>him go ahead and ejaculate on my thighs while I am >>>spanking him is a bad thing. It may in fact be a very >>>good thing for him. If I continue to spank when he is >>>aroused and excited and when I am getting started on >a >>>good, hard spanking--and if that brings him to a peak >>>and he ejaculates--and if we take a moment to clean >>>up, and if his spanking then continues and he ends up >>>getting a very sound spanking and ends up bawling his >>>head off and dancing around with a very sore >>>bottom--well, all of that is totally consistent with >>>what I wanted to see happen when I started to spank >>>him, isn't it? >>> >>>My question was (is), "So what is wrong with that? >>>Where is the harm in his having an ejaculation while >>>he is getting spanked as long as he still ends up >>>getting the very hard, sound spanking I started off >to >>>give him?" >>> >>>To assume there is something wrong with that, you >have >>>to assume there is something bad about his getting >>>aroused and ejaculating from a spanking, but tell me >>>what is wrong or even unexpected about that? >>> >>>I would guess, based on no statistics or independent >>>facts, but based only on my observation of myself and >>>other kids when I was growing up, and based on my >>>observation and reading about kids and spanking for >>>years, and my own experience with spanking kids, that >>>almost all kids find many things about spanking to be >>>very arousing. Isn't that true? >>> >>>Yes, I do mean sexually arousing. Many kids get >>>aroused when they are getting ready to be spanked. >And >>>when they are getting spanked. And they also get >>>aroused right after they are spanked. And when they >>>watch other kids get spanked. And if they happen to >>>spank kids as a babysitter or as an older relative. >>> >>>And many parents, instead of finding it a distasteful >>>task, discover (sometimes to their surprise) that >they >>>actually like spanking their own kids from the time >>>they are toddlers to the time they are teens. All of >>>these situations can be, and often are, sexually >>>arousing to the people involved--to the spanked, to >>>the observer's, and to the spankers. Am I right or >>>wrong about that, Jeena, based on your own >>>observations as a child and as an adult? >>> >>>And if I am right, then what is wrong about letting >my >>>son, when he gets aroused before and while being >>>spanked, go ahead and ejaculate on my thighs while he >>>is being spanked? If we move right on from that and >he >>>gets the spanking I intended him to get anyway, where >>>is the problem? >>> >>>There are people, and you seem to fall in that >>>category, Jeena, and I am not being critical just >>>saying this based on your comments, who prefer to >>>pretend that there are no sexual overtones to the >fact >>>of a mother spanking her son on his bare bottom. You >>>feel, if he is erected, give him a few swats with a >>>ping pong paddle to make him go flaccid, then spank >>>his bare bottom and you've eliminated the sexual >>>overtones of this kind of discipline. Surely, you >>>realize that is not true. >>> >>>When you do that, all you have done is you've just >>>brought his normal and understandable arousal to a >>>sharp and painful and temporary halt. Then you >>>continue and spank him soundly and--out of your >>>sight--he goes afterwards to his bed and takes care >of >>>the arousal that has quickly returned, as happens I >>>tend to believe with almost all kids--girls and boys >>>alike--after they are spanked. >>> >>>Do you understand my point now? I feel, instead of >>>forcing an unpleasant end to the normal arousal (with >>>hard swats with your ping pong paddle)--why not >relax, >>>don't get all bent at his erection, and go ahead and >>>spank him and let things take their natural course. >If >>>he ejaculates while you are spanking him, fine! Be >>>prepared to deal with it without a fuss, and continue >>>right on with his sound spanking. What do you think, >>>Jeena? Doesn't that that make a certain amount of >>>sense? >>>Love, Marge >> >>Hi Marge, what you said makes perfect sense to me. >> >>Personally I like the way you handle your spanking of >>your son. >> >>But you have to be aware that not all families are the >>same, and that is good because if we were all the same >>it would be a very dull world indeed. >> >>Would love to read more sessions you have spanking >>your son.

Notice: Copies of your message may remain on this and other systems on internet. Please be respectful.