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Subject: Re: Summer camp paddling

Author:
Davis
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Date Posted: 11:43:58 05/15/24 Wed
In reply to: James to davis 's message, "Re: Summer camp paddling" on 11:13:11 05/15/24 Wed

Between 10-16 years and I spanked 2 kids.

It wasn’t a church camp it was a youth camp and a wide leather belt was used.

>>
>How old were the kids at your camp? Did u ever have to
>spank one of the campers? If they used the belt, how
>did they spank and how many bc it seems like too much
>at a church camp to use a belt.
>
>Typically for not following instructions, swearing and
>>fighting. A leather belt was used.
>>
>>>Hi David,
>>>
>>>Why were spankings given and how?
>>>
>>>>I agree with the advice you been given and
>ultimately
>>>>it is your familys decision.
>>>>
>>>>I worked as a youth advisor at camp and we did use
>>>>corporal punishment.
>>>>
>>>>>>
>>>>>Jackie,
>>>>>
>>>>>In the end it's up to u and your husband. I'm sure
>>>>>your boys friends are going to have the same
>>>>>punishment at camp whatever
>>>>>U guys decide. Did u ask if u and your husband can
>>>>>just come up and spank your boys if needed instead
>>of
>>>>>him paddling them? If u guys don't feel comfortable
>>>>>then don't sign but tell your boys they will be
>>>>>spanked when they get back for each time they get
>>>into
>>>>>trouble at camp. U could always call your pastor
>and
>>>>>get some information and see his thoughts as well
>>>>>since it is a church camp. Any questions I'm here
>>>hope
>>>>>I helped some. God bless
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>>Hi James,
>>>>>>
>>>>>>They are 9 and 12 and he said they were be spanked
>>>on
>>>>>>the bare bottom. That’s all he said.
>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>Hi Jackie,
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>It's great that u called and got your questions
>>>>>asked.
>>>>>>>I'm surprised to that the camp would spank bare
>>>>>bottom
>>>>>>>but also being a church camp from your church
>that
>>>u
>>>>>>>and are attending I don't think he is going to
>>>>>>>actually hurt any of the kids or he wouldn't be
>>>camp
>>>>>>>director or I'm sure you're church wouldn't have
>>>him
>>>>>>>there. Did he say that your boys would have to
>>take
>>>>>>>down their own shorts and underwear or does he?
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>I would also talk to some of your boys parents
>>>>>friends
>>>>>>>and get their opinion as well. What do u and
>>>husband
>>>>>>>think about doing? How old are your boys??
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>Hi James,
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>I decided to call the camp director and
>introduce
>>>>>>>>myself and ask some questions. He was pleasant
>>>but
>>>>>>he
>>>>>>>>said if a paddling needed to be given that it
>>>would
>>>>>>>>more than likely be to a bare bottom. I’m
>>>really
>>>>>>>>surprised about this!
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>Jackie,
>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>I completely understand and I would think the
>>>>>>>paddling
>>>>>>>>>would be over their underwear if they have to
>do
>>>>>it.
>>>>>>>>>And also understand your concerns and I would
>>>have
>>>>>>>the
>>>>>>>>>same. How old are your boys?
>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>I spank my boys with a paddle or hairbrush bare
>>>>>>>>bottom.
>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>Also Jackie the 2-4 swats over underwear
>doesn't
>>>>>>seem
>>>>>>>>>to bad and I'm sure it will hurt but I'm sure
>>>your
>>>>>>>>>boys are used to alot more than that when
>>spanked
>>>>>by
>>>>>>>u
>>>>>>>>>or your husband.
>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>Again I think u and your husband are doing the
>>>>>right
>>>>>>>>>thing and after talking to the camp director
>can
>>>>>>make
>>>>>>>>>your decision what is best for your boys.
>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>God bless to u and your family
>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>Hi James,
>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>If it was to happen I would hope it would be
>>>over
>>>>>>>>>>underwear. I spank the kids with a wooden
>rice
>>>>>>stir
>>>>>>>>>>from the kitchen and my husband uses his
>hand.
>>>>We
>>>>>>>do
>>>>>>>>>>spank their bare bottoms but again we are the
>>>>ones
>>>>>>>>>>giving it.
>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>I’ve never given a spanking in our Church
>but
>>>>>>have
>>>>>>>>>>given one after Church when we returned home.
>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>Hi Jackie,
>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>That makes sense and understandable and is
>>>great
>>>>>u
>>>>>>>>>are
>>>>>>>>>>>going to talk to him before making your
>>>>decision.
>>>>>>>>The
>>>>>>>>>>>paddling is probably over their underwear.
>How
>>>>do
>>>>>>u
>>>>>>>>>>>guys usually spank your boys? Is any of your
>>>>>>>friends
>>>>>>>>>>>kids going and could u get there opinion? I
>>>>think
>>>>>>u
>>>>>>>>>>>guys are doing the right thing by wanting to
>>>>talk
>>>>>>>to
>>>>>>>>>>>the camp director before u guys decide and
>can
>>>>>>>>always
>>>>>>>>>>>drive up to spank them which I'm sure would
>be
>>>>>>>worse
>>>>>>>>>>>for your boys then getting paddled by the
>camp
>>>>>>>>>>>director. How often do you have to spank your
>>>>>>boys?
>>>>>>>>>>>Have u ever have to spank them during church
>>or
>>>>>>>>>after?
>>>>>>>>>>>God bless to your family and glad to see good
>>>>>>>>>parents.
>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>Hi James,
>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>The camp director is new so I really don’t
>>>>>know
>>>>>>>>>him
>>>>>>>>>>>>and I’m concerned about the paddling
>>>>>especially
>>>>>>>>if
>>>>>>>>>>>>they are made to take down their pants. We
>>do
>>>>>>>plan
>>>>>>>>>>on
>>>>>>>>>>>>speaking with the director when we drop them
>>>>off
>>>>>>>if
>>>>>>>>>>>>not before.
>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>>Hi Jackie, I have 2 boys myself and they do
>>>>get
>>>>>>>>>>>>>spanked also. How old are your boys? Do u
>>>know
>>>>>>>the
>>>>>>>>>>>>>camp director and is he from your church?
>>Can
>>>>>>>they
>>>>>>>>>>>>>call u if your boys get into trouble and if
>>u
>>>>>>>know
>>>>>>>>>>>the
>>>>>>>>>>>>>camp director u should just have him go
>>>>through
>>>>>>>>>with
>>>>>>>>>>>>>the paddling but u can talk to your boys
>>>>before
>>>>>>>>and
>>>>>>>>>>>>>tell them that they will be getting spanked
>>>>>when
>>>>>>>>>>they
>>>>>>>>>>>>>get home since they got into trouble at
>>camp.
>>>>>>>>>>Usually
>>>>>>>>>>>>>that is enough to make them behave. How do
>I
>>>>>>>>>usually
>>>>>>>>>>>>>spank and how often? I don't think other
>>>>>parents
>>>>>>>>>>will
>>>>>>>>>>>>>go up there to just spank their kids and
>>>could
>>>>>>be
>>>>>>>>>>>more
>>>>>>>>>>>>>embarrassing to your kids if u were going
>to
>>>>do
>>>>>>>>>that
>>>>>>>>>>>>>so I think u should talk to the camp
>>director
>>>>>>>>>before
>>>>>>>>>>>>>deciding and answer any questions or even
>>>>other
>>>>>>>>>>>>>friends that are letting their kids go and
>>>>>their
>>>>>>>>>>>>>opinions also. I personally would sign the
>>>>>>>consent
>>>>>>>>>>>and
>>>>>>>>>>>>>with want to be contacted and also tell my
>>>>boys
>>>>>>>>>that
>>>>>>>>>>>>>they would be spanked when they came home
>>>also
>>>>>>>>>since
>>>>>>>>>>>>>they misbehaved at camp and no better and
>no
>>>>>how
>>>>>>>>to
>>>>>>>>>>>>>behave. Just my opinion Jackie .
>>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>>Hi. My name is Jackie and I’m a mom to 2
>>>>>boys
>>>>>>>>>and
>>>>>>>>>>>a
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>girl, ages 7-12. My boys will be going to
>>a
>>>>>>>>>summer
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>camp next week that is part of our
>Church.
>>>>>>>>It’s
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>their first time attending the 2 week
>>camp.
>>>>>As
>>>>>>>>>you
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>would think there is paperwork and rules
>>and
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>restrictions to understand. One of the
>>>>>>>documents
>>>>>>>>>>is
>>>>>>>>>>>>a
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>parental consent for paddling to be
>>>allowed.
>>>>>>>The
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>document says the number of strikes is
>at
>>>>>>will
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>between 2-4 swats and pants are also at
>>>>will.
>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>We can opt out if we want so we are in
>>>>thought
>>>>>>>>>>about
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>what to do. We do spank our kids but it
>is
>>>>>>>us…
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>Thoughts will be much appreciated.

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Re: Summer camp paddling Jared 12:10:12 05/15/24 Wed

Re: Summer camp paddling -- Davis, 12:18:47 05/15/24 Wed

Re: Summer camp paddling -- Kathy to Davis, 12:31:12 05/15/24 Wed

Re: Summer camp paddling -- Davis, 12:33:19 05/15/24 Wed

Re: Summer camp paddling -- Kathy to Davis, 13:02:29 05/15/24 Wed

Re: Summer camp paddling -- Davis, 13:09:51 05/15/24 Wed

Re: Summer camp paddling -- Kathy to Davis, 13:16:03 05/15/24 Wed

Re: Summer camp paddling -- Davis, 13:20:52 05/15/24 Wed

Re: Summer camp paddling -- Kathy to Davis, 13:35:21 05/15/24 Wed

Re: Summer camp paddling -- Davis, 13:39:13 05/15/24 Wed

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>Between 10-16 years and I spanked 2 kids. > >It wasn’t a church camp it was a youth camp and a >wide leather belt was used. > >>> >>How old were the kids at your camp? Did u ever have to >>spank one of the campers? If they used the belt, how >>did they spank and how many bc it seems like too much >>at a church camp to use a belt. >> >>Typically for not following instructions, swearing and >>>fighting. A leather belt was used. >>> >>>>Hi David, >>>> >>>>Why were spankings given and how? >>>> >>>>>I agree with the advice you been given and >>ultimately >>>>>it is your familys decision. >>>>> >>>>>I worked as a youth advisor at camp and we did use >>>>>corporal punishment. >>>>> >>>>>>> >>>>>>Jackie, >>>>>> >>>>>>In the end it's up to u and your husband. I'm sure >>>>>>your boys friends are going to have the same >>>>>>punishment at camp whatever >>>>>>U guys decide. Did u ask if u and your husband can >>>>>>just come up and spank your boys if needed instead >>>of >>>>>>him paddling them? If u guys don't feel >comfortable >>>>>>then don't sign but tell your boys they will be >>>>>>spanked when they get back for each time they get >>>>into >>>>>>trouble at camp. U could always call your pastor >>and >>>>>>get some information and see his thoughts as well >>>>>>since it is a church camp. Any questions I'm here >>>>hope >>>>>>I helped some. God bless >>>>>> >>>>>> >>>>>>Hi James, >>>>>>> >>>>>>>They are 9 and 12 and he said they were be >spanked >>>>on >>>>>>>the bare bottom. That’s all he said. >>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>Hi Jackie, >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>It's great that u called and got your questions >>>>>>asked. >>>>>>>>I'm surprised to that the camp would spank bare >>>>>>bottom >>>>>>>>but also being a church camp from your church >>that >>>>u >>>>>>>>and are attending I don't think he is going to >>>>>>>>actually hurt any of the kids or he wouldn't be >>>>camp >>>>>>>>director or I'm sure you're church wouldn't have >>>>him >>>>>>>>there. Did he say that your boys would have to >>>take >>>>>>>>down their own shorts and underwear or does he? >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>I would also talk to some of your boys parents >>>>>>friends >>>>>>>>and get their opinion as well. What do u and >>>>husband >>>>>>>>think about doing? How old are your boys?? >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>Hi James, >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>I decided to call the camp director and >>introduce >>>>>>>>>myself and ask some questions. He was pleasant >>>>but >>>>>>>he >>>>>>>>>said if a paddling needed to be given that it >>>>would >>>>>>>>>more than likely be to a bare bottom. I’m >>>>really >>>>>>>>>surprised about this! >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>>Jackie, >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>>I completely understand and I would think the >>>>>>>>paddling >>>>>>>>>>would be over their underwear if they have to >>do >>>>>>it. >>>>>>>>>>And also understand your concerns and I would >>>>have >>>>>>>>the >>>>>>>>>>same. How old are your boys? >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>>I spank my boys with a paddle or hairbrush >bare >>>>>>>>>bottom. >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>>Also Jackie the 2-4 swats over underwear >>doesn't >>>>>>>seem >>>>>>>>>>to bad and I'm sure it will hurt but I'm sure >>>>your >>>>>>>>>>boys are used to alot more than that when >>>spanked >>>>>>by >>>>>>>>u >>>>>>>>>>or your husband. >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>>Again I think u and your husband are doing the >>>>>>right >>>>>>>>>>thing and after talking to the camp director >>can >>>>>>>make >>>>>>>>>>your decision what is best for your boys. >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>>God bless to u and your family >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>>Hi James, >>>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>>>If it was to happen I would hope it would be >>>>over >>>>>>>>>>>underwear. I spank the kids with a wooden >>rice >>>>>>>stir >>>>>>>>>>>from the kitchen and my husband uses his >>hand. >>>>>We >>>>>>>>do >>>>>>>>>>>spank their bare bottoms but again we are the >>>>>ones >>>>>>>>>>>giving it. >>>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>>>I’ve never given a spanking in our Church >>but >>>>>>>have >>>>>>>>>>>given one after Church when we returned home. >>>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>>>>Hi Jackie, >>>>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>>>>That makes sense and understandable and is >>>>great >>>>>>u >>>>>>>>>>are >>>>>>>>>>>>going to talk to him before making your >>>>>decision. >>>>>>>>>The >>>>>>>>>>>>paddling is probably over their underwear. >>How >>>>>do >>>>>>>u >>>>>>>>>>>>guys usually spank your boys? Is any of your >>>>>>>>friends >>>>>>>>>>>>kids going and could u get there opinion? I >>>>>think >>>>>>>u >>>>>>>>>>>>guys are doing the right thing by wanting to >>>>>talk >>>>>>>>to >>>>>>>>>>>>the camp director before u guys decide and >>can >>>>>>>>>always >>>>>>>>>>>>drive up to spank them which I'm sure would >>be >>>>>>>>worse >>>>>>>>>>>>for your boys then getting paddled by the >>camp >>>>>>>>>>>>director. How often do you have to spank >your >>>>>>>boys? >>>>>>>>>>>>Have u ever have to spank them during church >>>or >>>>>>>>>>after? >>>>>>>>>>>>God bless to your family and glad to see >good >>>>>>>>>>parents. >>>>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>>>>Hi James, >>>>>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>>>>>The camp director is new so I really >don’t >>>>>>know >>>>>>>>>>him >>>>>>>>>>>>>and I’m concerned about the paddling >>>>>>especially >>>>>>>>>if >>>>>>>>>>>>>they are made to take down their pants. We >>>do >>>>>>>>plan >>>>>>>>>>>on >>>>>>>>>>>>>speaking with the director when we drop >them >>>>>off >>>>>>>>if >>>>>>>>>>>>>not before. >>>>>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>>>>>>Hi Jackie, I have 2 boys myself and they >do >>>>>get >>>>>>>>>>>>>>spanked also. How old are your boys? Do u >>>>know >>>>>>>>the >>>>>>>>>>>>>>camp director and is he from your church? >>>Can >>>>>>>>they >>>>>>>>>>>>>>call u if your boys get into trouble and >if >>>u >>>>>>>>know >>>>>>>>>>>>the >>>>>>>>>>>>>>camp director u should just have him go >>>>>through >>>>>>>>>>with >>>>>>>>>>>>>>the paddling but u can talk to your boys >>>>>before >>>>>>>>>and >>>>>>>>>>>>>>tell them that they will be getting >spanked >>>>>>when >>>>>>>>>>>they >>>>>>>>>>>>>>get home since they got into trouble at >>>camp. >>>>>>>>>>>Usually >>>>>>>>>>>>>>that is enough to make them behave. How do >>I >>>>>>>>>>usually >>>>>>>>>>>>>>spank and how often? I don't think other >>>>>>parents >>>>>>>>>>>will >>>>>>>>>>>>>>go up there to just spank their kids and >>>>could >>>>>>>be >>>>>>>>>>>>more >>>>>>>>>>>>>>embarrassing to your kids if u were going >>to >>>>>do >>>>>>>>>>that >>>>>>>>>>>>>>so I think u should talk to the camp >>>director >>>>>>>>>>before >>>>>>>>>>>>>>deciding and answer any questions or even >>>>>other >>>>>>>>>>>>>>friends that are letting their kids go and >>>>>>their >>>>>>>>>>>>>>opinions also. I personally would sign the >>>>>>>>consent >>>>>>>>>>>>and >>>>>>>>>>>>>>with want to be contacted and also tell my >>>>>boys >>>>>>>>>>that >>>>>>>>>>>>>>they would be spanked when they came home >>>>also >>>>>>>>>>since >>>>>>>>>>>>>>they misbehaved at camp and no better and >>no >>>>>>how >>>>>>>>>to >>>>>>>>>>>>>>behave. Just my opinion Jackie . >>>>>>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>>>>>>Hi. My name is Jackie and I’m a mom to >2 >>>>>>boys >>>>>>>>>>and >>>>>>>>>>>>a >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>girl, ages 7-12. My boys will be going >to >>>a >>>>>>>>>>summer >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>camp next week that is part of our >>Church. >>>>>>>>>It’s >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>their first time attending the 2 week >>>camp. >>>>>>As >>>>>>>>>>you >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>would think there is paperwork and rules >>>and >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>restrictions to understand. One of the >>>>>>>>documents >>>>>>>>>>>is >>>>>>>>>>>>>a >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>parental consent for paddling to be >>>>allowed. >>>>>>>>The >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>document says the number of strikes is >>at >>>>>>>will >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>between 2-4 swats and pants are also at >>>>>will. >>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>We can opt out if we want so we are in >>>>>thought >>>>>>>>>>>about >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>what to do. We do spank our kids but it >>is >>>>>>>>us… >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>Thoughts will be much appreciated.

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