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Subject: Re: Checking back in

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Intrigued
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Date Posted: 06:37:54 05/16/24 Thu
In reply to: Zixi (Rosie) 's message, "Checking back in" on 05:14:38 05/16/24 Thu

Zixi, thanks for checking back in and letting us know what happened. I'm curious as to what Laura (is that your host-sister's name) has had say about all this? You did say she would have been spanked for this.

OK so I have two questions:
1. Were you told that prior to Sunday to NOT take out or otherwise use your phone during church? I don't think you should have to go to church but that's another matter... 2. Do you parents in China spank you and if yes, how is it done and what misbehaviors do you get it for?

>Sorry I couldn’t post-you’ll see why
>
>I had my “chat” with my host dad. It was extremely
>scary. He basically talked about the importance of
>respect for the Pastor and how embarrassing what I had
>done was for the family. He said, quite frankly, that
>I deserved a good bare-bottom spanking for it, but
>that he had discussed it with his wife and that they
>were going to give me one more chance, since I
>wasn’t culturally aware of their expectations. I did
>lose my phone for two days and was given a stern
>reminder to not stay glued to it.
>
>He also said that future misbehavior at home or school
>could indeed lead to a spanking for me as my parents
>have signed off on it, and he said if he sees my phone
>at church again he WILL have me cut a switch.
>
>I’m relieved to not have been spanked, but I feel
>like my host dad is itching to give me one— I’m
>not sure it’s just a vibe I get. Maybe he thinks
>I’m rich and spoiled (my family is one of the more
>high-ranking party wise in China) or maybe he just
>wants to get to spank “the Chinese girl.” I’m
>going to try to just steer clear for this next period
>as best I can.

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Re: Checking back in Zixi (Rosie) 11:39:56 05/16/24 Thu

Re: Checking back in -- Intrigued, 11:49:31 05/16/24 Thu

Re: Checking back in -- Jared, 11:54:29 05/16/24 Thu

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>Zixi, thanks for checking back in and letting us know >what happened. I'm curious as to what Laura (is that >your host-sister's name) has had say about all this? >You did say she would have been spanked for this. > >OK so I have two questions: >1. Were you told that prior to Sunday to NOT take out >or otherwise use your phone during church? I don't >think you should have to go to church but that's >another matter... 2. Do you parents in China spank you >and if yes, how is it done and what misbehaviors do >you get it for? > >>Sorry I couldn’t post-you’ll see why >> >>I had my “chat” with my host dad. It was extremely >>scary. He basically talked about the importance of >>respect for the Pastor and how embarrassing what I had >>done was for the family. He said, quite frankly, that >>I deserved a good bare-bottom spanking for it, but >>that he had discussed it with his wife and that they >>were going to give me one more chance, since I >>wasn’t culturally aware of their expectations. I did >>lose my phone for two days and was given a stern >>reminder to not stay glued to it. >> >>He also said that future misbehavior at home or school >>could indeed lead to a spanking for me as my parents >>have signed off on it, and he said if he sees my phone >>at church again he WILL have me cut a switch. >> >>I’m relieved to not have been spanked, but I feel >>like my host dad is itching to give me one— I’m >>not sure it’s just a vibe I get. Maybe he thinks >>I’m rich and spoiled (my family is one of the more >>high-ranking party wise in China) or maybe he just >>wants to get to spank “the Chinese girl.” I’m >>going to try to just steer clear for this next period >>as best I can.

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