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Subject: Re: Carla and looking for advice.

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Carla for James.

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Date Posted: 02:43:56 05/19/26 Tue
In reply to: James to Carla 's message, "Re: Carla and looking for advice." on 23:54:25 05/18/26 Mon

Thank you for your reply and just a few things to start with in regards to my daughter. I am only going to message here and thank you for your kind words. I am not sure if you were reading my message properly or perhaps I was not explaining myself properly sorry. I have of course tried talking to her and being extremely patient with her. I have also as I mentioned tried several other things as punishment from grounding, loss of electronic devices and other things including early bedtime. My son is also slowly starting to act out seeing his sister not reacting to the forms of discipline given out to her. I have took on another part time job to try and provide for my children and of course paying someone to look after them while I am working is not easy. Because my daughter will walk out of the house and not do anything she is asked to do. I have tried calling my husband and messaged him practically begging for him to not give up on our children. He said he has a new family now and I should have mentioned that his new partner is pregnant and she already had a little girl. I could not care less about myself and I am just heartbroken for my babies and how he can walk away from them. My children were extremely devastated of course and my son is having accidents as in wetting the bed since he left. He still asks questions about his dad and why he doesn't want to see them and my baby girl said she will never forgive him no matter what. I have tried to tell them that sometimes things don't work out between parents and have never once said anything bad about him and trying really hard to hold everything together. I have been racking my brain trying to figure out why he would destroy our beautiful family and especially our childrens lives. I hope you don't think I am boasting saying this. But I tried my best as a wife and a mother. I worked and took care of our children and did most of the cleaning and cooking and everything else regarding the house work and even kept in shape and I also was doing over forty hours a week working outside the house of course. I never looked for fancy clothes or nights out or put pressure on him for anything and he walked away from us all and he is the one who is loosing out. Because we have two beautiful children and I would not give them up for anything. I am not trying to make myself seem perfect here sorry and just pointing out some facts about our family before he walked out on us. As I said I had to take another part time job to make up for some of the financial issues with him leaving us so suddenly. I should have said also sorry for my messages being a bit scarred as I am quite exhausted and just dropped the children off at school. My babies are really affectionate and despite everything that happened to them. But as I said my daughter is really pushing boundaries and I know that is normal of course and especially with everything going on here. I hope i made some sense here and thank you once again. Hope you have a wonderful day.

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