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Author: Mark for Eveline
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Date Posted: 12:44:28 05/04/26 Mon
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Eveline for Alan.
's message, "Re: Anyone interested in talking about discipline." on 05:02:26 05/04/26 Mon
Hi Eveline,
Yes we have quite a structured procedure, which is age related. My girls are 11, 9 and 4, and son is 7.
I will always call them in to the livingroom and have them sit on the sofa next to me and we will have a discussion rather than a lecture about their behaviour, why they did what they did, why it was wrong etc. After the discussion they will either get a warning or a spanking depending on what it is.
If its a spanking then if its my oldest two girls then I'll ask them to go and fetch the hairbrush, by which point they know they are in big trouble and are nearly always crying before a smack has even landed.
The younger 3 I'm at the stage where I am just using my hand, we start to introduce the hairbrush around 8 years old.
Then when I have the hairbrush Ill ask them to undress, we allow a vest on but nothing else, there vest certainly doesnt come down far enough to offer any modesty and hands are not allowed to cover their private parts. My 4 year old I will undress her myself but all the others undress themselves. I expect their clothes to be folded neatly on top of each other as they take them off.
Then I give them a couple of minutes to think about their behaviour while I take their clothes out of the room.
When I return the younger 3 I spank across my knee, but my two oldest girls I now have then sit on the sofa arm lay them back legs up in the diaper position, my eldest really hates this position. I use my hand first on their bottoms and thighs, I can easily bring them to tears with my hand,but I finish with the hairbrush which has them bawlimg and screaming, usually 10-20 swats is plenty.
After that I let them calm down, give them a hug, dry their eyes and normally their is a snotty nose to wipe.
Then its 15 minutes in the corner hands on head with sore bottoms on display.
After that we have a quick little chat and hug then Ill let them go. I won't let them dress straight away they will usually have to stay bare for a couple of hours before they get their clothes back.
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