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Date Posted: 19:50:22 01/25/24 Thu In reply to: Kristina 's message, "Re: Checking In" on 20:06:40 01/24/24 Wed Yes, being marched to a spanking in just bra and panties was awful - especially because I knew my panties were coming down soon. How did that happen to you? I don't know if I got spanked as much as some girls/boys here but ALL my spankings were long/hard enough to make me bawl like a baby and dance around after. And baby oil spankings hurt the worst! Instant SHARP STING just getting hotter and hotter. That first time I felt silly with my stepmom rubbing oil on my bare buns. We were in her room so no one saw and I had no idea how much more sting the baby oil would cause. So I felt silly but it also felt good having my bottom rubbed/patted/squeezed while she told me I was being a "good girl" by holding still so she could "get your little bee-hind nice and oily for your spanking." It felt intimate and bonding with my stepmom and she mostly spanked me in private when she used the oil, so being sent to her room was scary because OMG my butt was gonna BURN - but it was comforting the way she smoothed the oil all over , so my backside was slick and warm when she pulled me across her lap. >Back at that age I think ppl seeing my bra and panties >was worse than a spanking in my mind LOL Did your >folks spank as thoroughly as weve been doing? > >But no joke the baby oil is a big ouchie, and though >I hated how much more it STUNG, when I looked in the >mirror lately it left my butt looking like a fresh >shined apple >I am LUCKY I didn't have social media back then is all >Im saying hehe > >> >>Cath, Your post brought back memories of my first >>time having baby oil on my bottom for my spanking. >> Our church and family believed in corporal >>punishment so my brother, step sister and I were >>spanked by dad and my stepmom. >> Bared below the waist, over the lap for long hard >>hand spankings was common. >> >> When I turned 13 I felt "too big" for such spankings >>and I complained, being over daddy's lap was "icky" >>and I HATED being spanked bare in front of my >>younger siblings. Obviously I needed to be taught a >>serious lesson in respect and obedience. >> Surprised when my step mother AGREED I was "too big" >>for such childish spankings, I was deflated when she >>said that meant I was ready for "big girl" spankings! >> >> From then on my spankings were more ritual and even >>more embarrassing. I'd be made to wait to be spanked >>later - having to report to the living room in just >>bra and panties etc. >> "Since you're too old to go across your Father's >>lap," my stepmom said, she told my Dad to pull my >>panties down and smack my bare behind while I stood >>up. Hands on my head, panties at my knees I felt so >>exposed, everyone watching me wiggling and whining >>half-naked. >> >> Then I STILL had to go over stepmom's lap for a >>dose of spoon or spatula, along with a scolding "This >>is how TEEN girls get SPANKED" and taunting, "I know >>it stings! Like THIS and THIS!" >> Anyway, one Saturday afternoon I had to report to my >>stepmom's bedroom for a spanking and she had a bottle >>of baby oil. >> I DID ask "Why?" when she handed me the baby oil, >>"Hold this," and she smiled, "Because I'm going to rub >>the baby oil all over your bare skin then I'm going to >>spank you with the bath brush." >> Weeping as she slipped my panties down she took >>the oil, spun me around and began wiping the oil all >>over my buns, promising, "This will make your spanking >>BURN twice as much." >> >> It did! >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >>>Kristina, my lovely friend, >>> >>>I am indeed looking for a bit of time to give you >some >>>more answers to the questions you raised. As you >know, >>>in my note to you above on 1-22-24, sent in Q and A >>>form, I did answer many of your questions, but I had >>>to stop that night when I was about 3/4 of the way >>>through. >>> >>>I have read with care and real interest (and delight) >>>the bedtime spanking routine you are using with your >>>son and daughter, and I am going to adapt much of >that >>>to the way we do things when the Lexan paddle arrives >>>(expected before the end of this week). I really like >>>the idea of using a timer for the spankings, for the >>>spankings for example, the use of the baby oil, and >>>also and especially the timer for the >>>follow up with the Lexan the way you are doing things >>>now. >>> >>>The fact that you are giving your two both 20 minutes >>>with the Lexan (five minutes off that total for a >>>couple of breaks, but for about 15 minutes of Lexan >>>paddling)--that really suggests that the Lexan is a >>>paddle that one can use to make spankings longer and >>>more effective without bruising or visible damage. I >>>love that idea. >>> >>>Since my three (at ages 15, 13 and 10) are all older >>>than your two (ages 6 and 9 I believe), I am hopeful >>>that by using the Lexan very carefully, as you do, my >>>husband and I will be able to give each of our three >a >>>long and painful spanking with the Lexan that will >>>make the spanking lessons for them even more >memorable >>>and effective. >>> >>>I am also, with the Lexan, going to try putting my >two >>>girls in the diaper position the way you do it--with >>>me holding their legs stretched all the way back >>>beside their ears and their bottoms raised on two >>>pillows. I agree with you that this should make them >>>"feel" their greater exposure of that spanking area >>>and make them even more aware of their more childish >>>appearance as they are being paddled, moreso than the >>>"Y" leg position that I've been using (which did add >>>to their "little girl being soundly punished" >>>feelings). >>> >>>There is one thing that you wrote, Love, that I >>>disagree with you on. As to applying baby oil for the >>>first time, I said that they will probably wonder >what >>>that is all about and ask me why I am doing that >>>(since it has never been done before as part of the >>>spanking routine). You said, "however, if they ask >you >>>why when you are applying the oil, that is >>>questioning mommy and daddy, and that can not be >>>allowed, they need to accept what you tell them >>>because they know you will do whats best for them. It >>>is out of line to question mom and dads instructions, >>>and is not honoring thy mother and >>>father, Cath." >>> >>>Alas, I totally disagree with you on that. I think it >>>is unrealistic to think that when you suddenly start >>>using a new procedure like that, never done before, >>>that any child would not have reasonable and >perfectly >>>normal questions that would arise: "What is this? >This >>>is something new! What is mom doing? I wonder why she >>>is putting some kind of liquid on my bottom?" It >>>would, in my opinion, be perfectly normal and >expected >>>for the child to ask about it. To do that is not >>>questioning my authority, not challenging my right to >>>do this, not questioning my "instructions"--it is >>>simply a normal, human, understandable reaction to >>>something new being introduced. >>> >>>So, Kristina, I would be surprised if I started to >>>apply baby oil without any explanation (which is >>>probably the way I would do it) if the first one >>>getting the baby oil applied with the other one >>>watching, DIDN'T ASK ME WHAT THIS WAS ALL ABOUT! And, >>>as I said, I would actually enjoy responding to that >>>perfectly normal question, by telling the girl--and >>>shocking both girls and the boy, too--"Oh, this is >>>baby oil, Sweetie. I am applying it because it will >>>make the spanks hurt more when I am spanking you!" >And >>>I'll bet that is what will happen in the case of my >>>kids. And I will have trouble keeping a straight face >>>and not laughing when I tell then that. >>> >>>So, anyway, that is a small point of difference. I >>>don't feel a reasonable question from one of the kids >>>about why I am now applying baby oil, which we never >>>did before, is somehow to be viewed as an >>>inappropriate or disrespectful question for a child >to >>>ask. As I say, I'd be astonished if they DIDN'T ask >>>why I was suddenly applying baby oil to their >bottoms. >>>And, LOL, I do think the answer they'll get back will >>>leave them wide-eyed >>> >>>Now, in passing here, I also note that you wrote to >me >>>that when I am holding the two girls while Tom is >>>paddling Jimmy, you hoped I would use that occasion >to >>>add a little "fire" to the occasion, teasing the >girls >>>who still have more spankings coming, and emphasizing >>>what a thorough spanking Jimmie is getting, by >>>pointing at Jimmie's bottom and saying things like, >>>"See how red his bum is getting?" "See how daddy >>>controls his kicking?" "My, his bum is getting warm, >>>huh girls?" >>> >>>Now I did tell you that in fact that is exactly the >>>kinds of things I do say to the girls when Jimmy is >>>being spanked, and that I say to the other watching >>>kids when any one of them is being spanked, and it is >>>also the kinds of things I'll say before and during >>>their own spankings--the purpose being to elevate and >>>"kick up" for the kids the whole experience of both >>>getting and watching a sound spanking delivered. (For >>>example, one of the girls being spanked might say or >>>yell early on like, "OWWWTCH! MOOOM! That HUUURTS! >>>THAT HUUUURTS!" >>>And I'll keep right on spanking and say something >>>like, "Yes, Baby, I KNOW it hurts! And it stings >>>really bad when I spank you here, doesn't it, >Sweetie! >>>And HERE! And HERE!") >>> >>>I do this, yes, and I do it in a teasing and light >way >>>but it lets them know I am not going to stop because >>>they yell or try to demand it, that I am in charge >and >>>I will stop when I decide to stop, but I am not >>>screaming at them telling them to shut up and take >it, >>>or telling them that they are bad or evil or nasty >>>like some parents do. My voice is calm, light, >>>teasing, needling, and this also lets them know that >>>there is no anger in Tom or I when we spank, and that >>>we are indeed going to continue right on and give >them >>>a really good, sound spanking because that is what >>>they need. I think, not sure but pretty sure, that is >>>the spirit you were trying to convey in your remarks >>>about hoping I made those comments to the girls when >>>Jimmy was being spanked--"See girls what a good >>>spanking your father is giving Jimmie! Oh listen to >>>him yell now, Girls! It really hurts when Tom spanks >>>him there!" >>> >>>I DO HOPE OTHERS ON THIS THREAD FEEL FREE TO JUMP IN >>>ANYTIME WITH COMMENTS OR QUESTIONS. THESE NOTES ARE >>>FOR ALL TO READ AND RESPOND TO WHO ARE INTERESTED! >>>LOVE TO HEAR FROM OTHERS. >>> >>>Anyway, Sweet Girl, I can hardly wait for the paddle >>>to arrive, to try the new diaper position with the >>>girls, to use the baby oil before the hand spankings >>>and before the Lexan paddling's, AND to use my egg >>>timer (perfect for the job) to time the spankings and >>>paddling's of my three and assure they get nice, >long, >>>hard and very thorough bedtime spankings. Drop me a >>>line or ten when you can--LOL! Lots of love, Cath >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >>>> >>>>>>Hello Cath , just wanted to say hello and check in >>>>>>wince we missed hearing from you last night :) >hope >>>>>>all is well and we hear from you some more soon! >>>>> >>>>>Good afternoon, Dear Kristina, >>>>> >>>>>Thank you for that sweet note about not hearing >from >>>>>me yesterday. Had a wonderful evening doing our >>>>>parental duties, but then to bed right after with >my >>>>>husband, both of us feeling wonderful and fired up, >>>>>and it was over an hour before we finally curled up >>>>>together and had a wonderful, deep, rejuvenating >>>>>night’s sleep. Giving our two darlings their >>>bedtime >>>>>spankings is working really great for them, but it >>is >>>>>also a wonderful present for us, too. >>>>> >>>>>The kids woke up rested, bright-eyed, and full of >>>>>energy this morning and they gave both of us loving >>>>>hugs and kisses before they went off to school. >>>>> >>>>>Just got back from the market and guess what?—one >>>of >>>>>today’s items I bought was their largest size >>>>>container of baby oil! Haven’t had that around >for >>>>>years! How do those lyrics go from West Side Story, >>>>>“Tonight, tonight, it all begins tonight…” >>>>> >>>>>I know it could seem very, very wicked of me to >even >>>>>think of this, but since you have a fun and teasing >>>>>nature, Kristina, you will probably appreciate my >>>>>feelings when I say this. The thing is I can’t >>wait >>>>>to start to apply that baby oil tonight to my >>>>>daughter, and when she asks why I am doing that, >>give >>>>>her a nice big kiss and look her in the eye and >tell >>>>>her, “This? Oh, this is so the spanks I give you >>>>>will hurt even more, Sweetie!” >>>>> >>>>>I’d like to have a camera on both of their faces >>>>>when I tell them that. Still, let’s face it, the >>>>>whole purpose of a good and proper spanking is to >>>make >>>>>the bottom sting really good and to bring lots of >>>>>tears, and to bring the lesson home the best we >can, >>>>>right? So your suggestion to apply baby lotion >>before >>>>>spanking because the spanks will hurt more sounds >>>like >>>>>a really great idea to me, and thanks for that tip. >>>>> >>>>>I’m sure you read that last note from Yvonne. It >>>>>sounds like she did a great job with her first >>>bedtime >>>>>spankings of her kids, so you and I can feel good >we >>>>>helped with that. I’m going to post a note to her >>>>>below right now. >>>>> >>>>>Oh, Kristina—I am so glad we found this site and >>>>>you!--my sweet, spanking, fellow mother! I love >your >>>>>great comments and suggestions. Love, love, love, >>>Cath [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] |
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