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Author: Cath to Rachel--a quick note |
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Date Posted: 20:19:20 01/25/24 Thu In reply to: Rachel 's message, "Re: Checking In" on 20:02:09 01/24/24 Wed Hi, Rachel This is just a quick note to let you know I really loved your post about the first time you stepmother used baby oil before she spanked you. I just loved it! I could see the shock that would have been on your face when she told you she was using it so that your spanking would hurt and burn more. What a memorable moment. And, of course, that is why Kristina uses it, and why I am now using it now with my kids following her suggestion. As spanking mothers, we love the idea that the spankings will burn and sting more, as much as possible in fact, without actually spanking harder to get that increased effect! Tom and I used baby oil on our three for the first time last night, and we could definitely see--and they all agreed when we talked later--the baby oil definitely did that. I am going to try to write a post right now on how the first time mouth soaping's went yesterday--for me as a parent, being honest and not pretending otherwise, the soaping's were a treat to apply and to watch the results. For my two girls and my son, they were a TERRIBLE experience. Katrina says she uses them with her kids almost every day and sometimes twice a day. I expect I will use soaping fairly often myself to reign in swearing with kids (with the two older kids, the unacceptable words just pop out when they are excited, angry, arguing, etc.),to curb nasty comments aimed at each other, and to cut down on disrespectful language or attitude aimed at us, the parents, or at others. Rachel, I have to say there was something very empowering for me as parent to have each of my three standing naked in front of me while I used a soapy washcloth to lather up each child's mouth, not rushing, just ignoring the gagging sounds, the retching and actual tears, and the animated squirming in place of the child, while I continued to soap up the inside of the mouth--the gums, the teeth, and the surface, top and bottom, of the tongue. At the same time, with the fingers of one hands in the soapy wash cloth and in the child's mouth, I was reaching down with the hairbrush in my other hand to give several sharp, hard cracks at at time to the squirming child's bottom, saying things like, "Stand still! Stop squirming! I KNOW it tastes terrible! That's what I want it to do! Now stand still--unless you want some more of THIS (sharp crack of hairbrush on the bare bottom) and THIS! And THIS! As I say, Rachel, a very empowering experience and not at all an unpleasant experience FOR THE PARENT! I can see why Kristina does it often and why she uses it as an effective discipline tool. I did this in my case with each child--and then I made each child stand facing the edge of the bathtub (after doing the third child I had all three standing facing the bath tub) with the small bar of soap clenched between the teeth for almost five minutes, so the could reach up move the soap just for a second to let them spit (not rinse--just spit) into the bathtub. When the roughly five minutes was up, I let them all remove the soap and put it on the three small dishes I had waiting, to be kept in order on the empty top shelf of that medicine cabinet. Then, sitting on the lid of the toilet with the other two standing and watching, I took each one in turn over my knee and spanked them very thoroughly with my wooden hairbrush until all were a bawling, dancing mess. That ended their first mouth soaping treatment. Rachel, did your stepmother continue to use mouth soaping with you after that first time you told us about. About ho often if she did? And would you mind, your note was really interesting to read, about how often did your stepmother spank you and what ages were you when she would spank you and/or give you those mouthwashes. Thanks again for your fascinating note. Cath [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] |
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| Re: Checking In | Kristina | 20:38:36 01/25/24 Thu |
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| Re: Checking In | Rachel | 19:28:54 01/27/24 Sat |
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