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| Subject: Re: RESPONSES TO RESPONSES | |
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Author: Kristina (Reminiscent) |
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Date Posted: 14:00:35 01/23/24 Tue In reply to: Cath to Yvonne 's message, "Re: RESPONSES TO RESPONSES" on 13:43:12 01/23/24 Tue Oh agreed, you did so great! I know some folks act as though bedtime spankings are just spanking for no reason, but it is not like that at all! The good thing about spankings,is it is a universal language, exceeds all language barriers. But Yvonne, same offer I extend to Cath, if you want to email me any time, feel free, same goes for any of you wonderful folks on the forum, our forum family. Okay so story time. When hubby or I work with families, I always thought of myself sort of like Supernanny I just replaced her naughty step with spanking. But when I first realized spankings could be done as reminders and behaviors, this is what happened. So when my kids used to like well my daughter, id put her to bed shed have a drink and snack and do her teeth, but shed do things, like purposely forget to brush and then say she had to get up to brush, or she was thristy, or was too hot, or said i was making too much noise (when i was quietly reading) was frustrated and watched a Supernanny episode, a family had their kid coming out of their room like this. Jos advise was silently walk them back to bedroom , tuck them in say nothing and shut the door, and had them repeating it like 30 times before the kid stayed in their room, even at one point sitting outside the door. I said heck no! I took her approach but modified it a little bit, that night. I put her to bed with a bedtime spanking , told her shes not to get up for any reason, it is BED TIME! lol what do you know she came out wandering into my room rubbing her eyes. i said nothing, took her by the ear, marched her to her room. I laid her in bed, put her legs back and smacked her bare bottom 30 times. kissed her forehead put her under blankets and left. She got up again 10 minutes later. That first night, I had to repeat it 5 times, but over next week, it became less and less often until she stayed in bed. SUCCESS! [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] |
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| Re: RESPONSES TO RESPONSES | Yvonne to Kristina and Cath | 20:51:13 01/23/24 Tue |
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