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Date Posted: 20:06:40 01/24/24 Wed In reply to: Rachel 's message, "Re: Checking In" on 20:02:09 01/24/24 Wed Back at that age I think ppl seeing my bra and panties was worse than a spanking in my mind LOL Did your folks spank as thoroughly as weve been doing? But no joke the baby oil is a big ouchie, and though I hated how much more it STUNG, when I looked in the mirror lately it left my butt looking like a fresh shined apple I am LUCKY I didn't have social media back then is all Im saying hehe > >Cath, Your post brought back memories of my first >time having baby oil on my bottom for my spanking. > Our church and family believed in corporal >punishment so my brother, step sister and I were >spanked by dad and my stepmom. > Bared below the waist, over the lap for long hard >hand spankings was common. > > When I turned 13 I felt "too big" for such spankings >and I complained, being over daddy's lap was "icky" >and I HATED being spanked bare in front of my >younger siblings. Obviously I needed to be taught a >serious lesson in respect and obedience. > Surprised when my step mother AGREED I was "too big" >for such childish spankings, I was deflated when she >said that meant I was ready for "big girl" spankings! > > From then on my spankings were more ritual and even >more embarrassing. I'd be made to wait to be spanked >later - having to report to the living room in just >bra and panties etc. > "Since you're too old to go across your Father's >lap," my stepmom said, she told my Dad to pull my >panties down and smack my bare behind while I stood >up. Hands on my head, panties at my knees I felt so >exposed, everyone watching me wiggling and whining >half-naked. > > Then I STILL had to go over stepmom's lap for a >dose of spoon or spatula, along with a scolding "This >is how TEEN girls get SPANKED" and taunting, "I know >it stings! Like THIS and THIS!" > Anyway, one Saturday afternoon I had to report to my >stepmom's bedroom for a spanking and she had a bottle >of baby oil. > I DID ask "Why?" when she handed me the baby oil, >"Hold this," and she smiled, "Because I'm going to rub >the baby oil all over your bare skin then I'm going to >spank you with the bath brush." > Weeping as she slipped my panties down she took >the oil, spun me around and began wiping the oil all >over my buns, promising, "This will make your spanking >BURN twice as much." > > It did! > > > > > > > > > > >>Kristina, my lovely friend, >> >>I am indeed looking for a bit of time to give you some >>more answers to the questions you raised. As you know, >>in my note to you above on 1-22-24, sent in Q and A >>form, I did answer many of your questions, but I had >>to stop that night when I was about 3/4 of the way >>through. >> >>I have read with care and real interest (and delight) >>the bedtime spanking routine you are using with your >>son and daughter, and I am going to adapt much of that >>to the way we do things when the Lexan paddle arrives >>(expected before the end of this week). I really like >>the idea of using a timer for the spankings, for the >>spankings for example, the use of the baby oil, and >>also and especially the timer for the >>follow up with the Lexan the way you are doing things >>now. >> >>The fact that you are giving your two both 20 minutes >>with the Lexan (five minutes off that total for a >>couple of breaks, but for about 15 minutes of Lexan >>paddling)--that really suggests that the Lexan is a >>paddle that one can use to make spankings longer and >>more effective without bruising or visible damage. I >>love that idea. >> >>Since my three (at ages 15, 13 and 10) are all older >>than your two (ages 6 and 9 I believe), I am hopeful >>that by using the Lexan very carefully, as you do, my >>husband and I will be able to give each of our three a >>long and painful spanking with the Lexan that will >>make the spanking lessons for them even more memorable >>and effective. >> >>I am also, with the Lexan, going to try putting my two >>girls in the diaper position the way you do it--with >>me holding their legs stretched all the way back >>beside their ears and their bottoms raised on two >>pillows. I agree with you that this should make them >>"feel" their greater exposure of that spanking area >>and make them even more aware of their more childish >>appearance as they are being paddled, moreso than the >>"Y" leg position that I've been using (which did add >>to their "little girl being soundly punished" >>feelings). >> >>There is one thing that you wrote, Love, that I >>disagree with you on. As to applying baby oil for the >>first time, I said that they will probably wonder what >>that is all about and ask me why I am doing that >>(since it has never been done before as part of the >>spanking routine). You said, "however, if they ask you >>why when you are applying the oil, that is >>questioning mommy and daddy, and that can not be >>allowed, they need to accept what you tell them >>because they know you will do whats best for them. It >>is out of line to question mom and dads instructions, >>and is not honoring thy mother and >>father, Cath." >> >>Alas, I totally disagree with you on that. I think it >>is unrealistic to think that when you suddenly start >>using a new procedure like that, never done before, >>that any child would not have reasonable and perfectly >>normal questions that would arise: "What is this? This >>is something new! What is mom doing? I wonder why she >>is putting some kind of liquid on my bottom?" It >>would, in my opinion, be perfectly normal and expected >>for the child to ask about it. To do that is not >>questioning my authority, not challenging my right to >>do this, not questioning my "instructions"--it is >>simply a normal, human, understandable reaction to >>something new being introduced. >> >>So, Kristina, I would be surprised if I started to >>apply baby oil without any explanation (which is >>probably the way I would do it) if the first one >>getting the baby oil applied with the other one >>watching, DIDN'T ASK ME WHAT THIS WAS ALL ABOUT! And, >>as I said, I would actually enjoy responding to that >>perfectly normal question, by telling the girl--and >>shocking both girls and the boy, too--"Oh, this is >>baby oil, Sweetie. I am applying it because it will >>make the spanks hurt more when I am spanking you!" And >>I'll bet that is what will happen in the case of my >>kids. And I will have trouble keeping a straight face >>and not laughing when I tell then that. >> >>So, anyway, that is a small point of difference. I >>don't feel a reasonable question from one of the kids >>about why I am now applying baby oil, which we never >>did before, is somehow to be viewed as an >>inappropriate or disrespectful question for a child to >>ask. As I say, I'd be astonished if they DIDN'T ask >>why I was suddenly applying baby oil to their bottoms. >>And, LOL, I do think the answer they'll get back will >>leave them wide-eyed >> >>Now, in passing here, I also note that you wrote to me >>that when I am holding the two girls while Tom is >>paddling Jimmy, you hoped I would use that occasion to >>add a little "fire" to the occasion, teasing the girls >>who still have more spankings coming, and emphasizing >>what a thorough spanking Jimmie is getting, by >>pointing at Jimmie's bottom and saying things like, >>"See how red his bum is getting?" "See how daddy >>controls his kicking?" "My, his bum is getting warm, >>huh girls?" >> >>Now I did tell you that in fact that is exactly the >>kinds of things I do say to the girls when Jimmy is >>being spanked, and that I say to the other watching >>kids when any one of them is being spanked, and it is >>also the kinds of things I'll say before and during >>their own spankings--the purpose being to elevate and >>"kick up" for the kids the whole experience of both >>getting and watching a sound spanking delivered. (For >>example, one of the girls being spanked might say or >>yell early on like, "OWWWTCH! MOOOM! That HUUURTS! >>THAT HUUUURTS!" >>And I'll keep right on spanking and say something >>like, "Yes, Baby, I KNOW it hurts! And it stings >>really bad when I spank you here, doesn't it, Sweetie! >>And HERE! And HERE!") >> >>I do this, yes, and I do it in a teasing and light way >>but it lets them know I am not going to stop because >>they yell or try to demand it, that I am in charge and >>I will stop when I decide to stop, but I am not >>screaming at them telling them to shut up and take it, >>or telling them that they are bad or evil or nasty >>like some parents do. My voice is calm, light, >>teasing, needling, and this also lets them know that >>there is no anger in Tom or I when we spank, and that >>we are indeed going to continue right on and give them >>a really good, sound spanking because that is what >>they need. I think, not sure but pretty sure, that is >>the spirit you were trying to convey in your remarks >>about hoping I made those comments to the girls when >>Jimmy was being spanked--"See girls what a good >>spanking your father is giving Jimmie! Oh listen to >>him yell now, Girls! It really hurts when Tom spanks >>him there!" >> >>I DO HOPE OTHERS ON THIS THREAD FEEL FREE TO JUMP IN >>ANYTIME WITH COMMENTS OR QUESTIONS. THESE NOTES ARE >>FOR ALL TO READ AND RESPOND TO WHO ARE INTERESTED! >>LOVE TO HEAR FROM OTHERS. >> >>Anyway, Sweet Girl, I can hardly wait for the paddle >>to arrive, to try the new diaper position with the >>girls, to use the baby oil before the hand spankings >>and before the Lexan paddling's, AND to use my egg >>timer (perfect for the job) to time the spankings and >>paddling's of my three and assure they get nice, long, >>hard and very thorough bedtime spankings. Drop me a >>line or ten when you can--LOL! Lots of love, Cath >> >> >> >> >> >> >>> >>>>>Hello Cath , just wanted to say hello and check in >>>>>wince we missed hearing from you last night :) hope >>>>>all is well and we hear from you some more soon! >>>> >>>>Good afternoon, Dear Kristina, >>>> >>>>Thank you for that sweet note about not hearing from >>>>me yesterday. Had a wonderful evening doing our >>>>parental duties, but then to bed right after with my >>>>husband, both of us feeling wonderful and fired up, >>>>and it was over an hour before we finally curled up >>>>together and had a wonderful, deep, rejuvenating >>>>night’s sleep. Giving our two darlings their >>bedtime >>>>spankings is working really great for them, but it >is >>>>also a wonderful present for us, too. >>>> >>>>The kids woke up rested, bright-eyed, and full of >>>>energy this morning and they gave both of us loving >>>>hugs and kisses before they went off to school. >>>> >>>>Just got back from the market and guess what?—one >>of >>>>today’s items I bought was their largest size >>>>container of baby oil! Haven’t had that around for >>>>years! How do those lyrics go from West Side Story, >>>>“Tonight, tonight, it all begins tonight…” >>>> >>>>I know it could seem very, very wicked of me to even >>>>think of this, but since you have a fun and teasing >>>>nature, Kristina, you will probably appreciate my >>>>feelings when I say this. The thing is I can’t >wait >>>>to start to apply that baby oil tonight to my >>>>daughter, and when she asks why I am doing that, >give >>>>her a nice big kiss and look her in the eye and tell >>>>her, “This? Oh, this is so the spanks I give you >>>>will hurt even more, Sweetie!” >>>> >>>>I’d like to have a camera on both of their faces >>>>when I tell them that. Still, let’s face it, the >>>>whole purpose of a good and proper spanking is to >>make >>>>the bottom sting really good and to bring lots of >>>>tears, and to bring the lesson home the best we can, >>>>right? So your suggestion to apply baby lotion >before >>>>spanking because the spanks will hurt more sounds >>like >>>>a really great idea to me, and thanks for that tip. >>>> >>>>I’m sure you read that last note from Yvonne. It >>>>sounds like she did a great job with her first >>bedtime >>>>spankings of her kids, so you and I can feel good we >>>>helped with that. I’m going to post a note to her >>>>below right now. >>>> >>>>Oh, Kristina—I am so glad we found this site and >>>>you!--my sweet, spanking, fellow mother! I love your >>>>great comments and suggestions. Love, love, love, >>Cath [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] |
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