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>You're welcome sweetie. I was happy to share that with >you. I had previously shared this story but I decided >to add some more details that I had omitted before. >Birthday Spankings were a tradition in my family. >While I haven't had really birthday parties, like that >one, we do celebrate our birthdays in this family. >We've had the great fortune of adding two more to our >family in the last couple of weeks. They are a >twenty-three year old woman named Kayla and her little >five year old angel Jasmine, we call her Jazzy. >Kayla's husband Marcus is in the Army and is currently >serving in the Middle East and neither have any family >(long story) so she has been raising this precious >angel by herself. We met in the ladies room at Walmart >and She really touched me. We sat down and had coffee, >(Jazzy had a milk shake) we instantly became friends >and now in just a month's time, they've become part of >our family and moved in with us last weekend. Kayla >has never had a birthday party even as a child so we >are gonna have a big one for her. Sorry I got off >track a little. I do that because I'm a chatterbox >even when I'm typing. But Birthday Spankings have >always been a tradition and I still get one from >Momma. Not usually in front of a house full of family >and friends but I still get them and I wouldn't have >it any other way. My last one was back in March when I >turned thirty-seven. The kids were in school, Mark and >Daddy were both at work My sister Samantha had come >into town with her Baby for a couple of days, So they >took me to lunch and then when we got back to Momma's >they both gave me a birthday spanking. Sammy's five >years younger than me and her birthday is in late >February, but she got out of a birthday spanking >because she is pregnant with her second child. > >Sometimes as you go though life you can't help but ask >yourself "What would have happened if...?" But I >learned early to try to not dwell on what could have >been and to celebrate the moment instead. I hope you >were able to find happiness in your life and things >are going well for you now. My greatest prayer for >myself is when my time comes, I can look back on my >life and say, "I had a wonderful life and wouldn't >have changed a thing." and I hope that for you too >sweetie. > >For the last question... >Momma was not the only spanker in my life. But she is >the one who gave me the most spankings. Like me, she >was blessed to be a stay at home mom and as such, she >felt most of the discipline should fall on her. Partly >because she's the one who had to put up with all our >crap. So she was the one who usually spanked our bare >little butts. Or not so little as I was seventeen last >time she had me over her knee for a real spanking. >Also, She loved how excited we were when Daddy came >home from work. It bothers her that so many mommas >rely on "Wait till your Daddy gets home." and the >worst part of that is it hurts a child's relationship >with their Daddy. I have a brother and sister and I'm >the oldest. From the day I was born I was always >"Daddy's Baby Girl" In fact, the only time he has ever >called me by my given name was when I was in trouble. >I love it when he calls me Baby Girl. and to me even >being scolded by him was heart breaking. There were >maybe a dozen times in my life when Daddy turned me >over his knee and spanked my bare butt. The last time >being three days after my eighteenth birthday. He >always just used his big ol' hand and it hurt, but it >hurt my feelings more than it did my bottom. The worst >punishment that I ever got from him though was one >time I got in trouble at school when I was a Senior >for doing something stupid. I could have gotten >suspended but only got a week of detention and a two >week ECS. Momma spanked me bare butt good with a >hairbrush when I got home since I got in trouble at >School. but the worst part was when Daddy came home >and Momma made me tell him what happened. The look he >had on his face... Disappointment is the way to >describe it. He told me we'd talk after supper. I >couldn't even look at him. I went to my room and >waited for him to come talk to me, figuring he would >probably spank me too. When he knocked on my door, it >felt like my heart stopped. I told him to come in. I >started to apologize and he cut me off. He said "Sonya >Marie, sit down, I want to talk with you." I knew it >was going to be bad. But he never raised his voice or >threatened me in anyway. But he talked quietly and >then he said something that hit me hard. He told me I >can't believe you would do something like this, Sonya, >I'm really disappointed in you right now." When he >said, that I was crushed. He gave me a kiss on the >head and said, "I want you to think on this." then >walked out without another word. As soon as the door >closed, I started bawling. I literally lay in my bed >and cried all night. I would have rather have had a >beating like Granny gave me when I was six and seven >than to have ever been told I was a disappointment to >my Daddy. We did talk the next morning. We took a walk >to the park and took one of the walking paths to a >nearby lake and we talked I started to cry again >asking him to not be disappointed in me anymore. He >hugged me and said "Baby Girl I'm sorry I said, that >to you. I was surprised and disappointed that you did >that, but I'm not Disappointed in you. Daddy went to >wake Troy and Sammy up and Momma asked me. "Did you >get any sleep last night, you look real tired." I told >her "No Momma" then she said, "Neither did your Daddy, >he lay awake all night long staring at the ceiling. He >told me what he said to you and felt awful about it." >I let her know we talked it out and everything was ok. > >I did get spankings from other people too. I got >spanked and paddled at school from first through >seventh grade. I also got spankings from my Aunt >Connie and Uncle Roy and my two best friends Mommas. >Pretty much every spanking I got except for the ones I >got at school and the occasional "Attention Getter" >from my folks were bare butt. > >I also got two very abusive beatings from My Granny >(Momma's momma) One with a switch at six years old >that left me covered with welts on my butt, lower >back, front and backs of my legs and my right arm. and >a hand spanking or I should say spankings when I was >Seven that left me pretty bruised up. I also got a >paddling from my Assistant Principal that left me >severely bruised and my butt covered in blood >blisters. That was the last time I ever got spanked in >School because Momma removed the permission for them >to Paddle us after that and the Assistant lost his job >over it. > >The two beatings I got from Granny were both bare. I >had to take off my shorts and panties when she >switched me and she yanked me out of the bathtub and >spanked me naked when I was seven. She also slapped me >in the face then too. After that Momma told she will >never put her hands or anything else on one of us >again and never left us alone with her. The paddling >I got from that Assistant Principal I wasn't bare butt >but I was very exposed because I had a short skirt on >and the way he had me bent across his desk, it rode >up. My panties were riding up too and the three licks >all hit bare skin. That was on a Monday and I was out >of school the rest of the week because I literally >could not sit down. Momma literally had to help hold >me over the toilet because I couldn't sit down on it. > >Well Cliff I was happy to answer your questions and if >you can think of anything else please ask. > >Have a nice evening. > >Sonya.

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