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Subject: Re: Guilty feelings

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Sonya
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Date Posted: 20:46:10 10/12/25 Sun
In reply to: Chris to Sonya 's message, "Re: Guilty feelings" on 17:24:19 10/12/25 Sun

Hi Sweetie. No need to apologize at all.

First I have to say. I have a wonderful relationship with my Momma and Daddy. They were strict when they had to be and yes, I got plenty of spankings growing up and into my teens. My last spanking was from Daddy three days after my eighteenth birthday. Would I submit to a spanking if Momma felt I really deserved it. I'd have to say probably yes. I don't know. Would she ever do it? That's unlikely. I was thirteen when I told her I hated her and even though I apologized and she has forgiven me, I still feel twinges of guilt for ever saying that to her. I probably will always feel that guilt because even though she forgave me a long time ago, I still haven't forgiven myself.

Whether I would do it or not doesn't really matter, because I am an Adult and Momma isn't going to do it and I'm not going to ask her to. It doesn't matter who you are. We've all done things we've felt guilty about and the thing I feel the most guilt over was hurting the woman who gave me life even though she could have died doing it. A woman who has loved me unconditionally and even though it honestly hurt her feelings to do it. Spanked me when it was needed.

So at this point it's just a rhetorical question. Would I let her spank me? Momma hasn't given me a real spanking since I was seventeen years old. I possibly would. Would it ever happen? Highly unlikely.

As far as being too old. (and first let me apologize to the Moderator) I've told my fourteen and twelve year olds as far as I'm concerned, they are too old to spank now, but if they continue to do things that they know they will get a spanking for, then that's what will happen. I was too old to get spankings when I was in my teens, but that didn't stop me from doing things I knew I would get spanked for. Like getting in trouble at school. The thing I got in trouble for the most in school was talking in class. I got a ton of detentions and Unsatisfactory marks on my report card because I talked too much. In Elementary and Jr. High. I got in trouble for fighting in school, which led to paddling or detention and I got spanked for that. By the time I was in high school, I quit getting in trouble for fighting because I learned to settle things with my words instead of my fists. So I stopped getting in trouble for that. If I had taken the lesson I learned about fighting and applied that to talking in class. I wouldn't have gotten as many spankings at home as I did. Breaking curfew got me in trouble more than a few times. I knew what time I had to be home, yet I made the poor choice and it got me in trouble.

I hope I was able to answer your questions. If you have any other questions, don't hesitate to ask hon.

Sonya

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Re: Guilty feelings Chris to Sonya 10:36:37 10/13/25 Mon

Re: Guilty feelings -- Sonya to Chris, 11:51:02 10/13/25 Mon

Re: Guilty feelings -- Chris to Sonya, 21:44:11 10/13/25 Mon

Re: Guilty feelings -- Sonya, 08:28:31 10/15/25 Wed

Re: Guilty feelings -- Chris to Sonya, 19:57:25 10/15/25 Wed

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>Hi Sweetie. No need to apologize at all. > >First I have to say. I have a wonderful relationship >with my Momma and Daddy. They were strict when they >had to be and yes, I got plenty of spankings growing >up and into my teens. My last spanking was from Daddy >three days after my eighteenth birthday. Would I >submit to a spanking if Momma felt I really deserved >it. I'd have to say probably yes. I don't know. Would >she ever do it? That's unlikely. I was thirteen when I >told her I hated her and even though I apologized and >she has forgiven me, I still feel twinges of guilt for >ever saying that to her. I probably will always feel >that guilt because even though she forgave me a long >time ago, I still haven't forgiven myself. > >Whether I would do it or not doesn't really matter, >because I am an Adult and Momma isn't going to do it >and I'm not going to ask her to. It doesn't matter who >you are. We've all done things we've felt guilty about >and the thing I feel the most guilt over was hurting >the woman who gave me life even though she could have >died doing it. A woman who has loved me >unconditionally and even though it honestly hurt her >feelings to do it. Spanked me when it was needed. > >So at this point it's just a rhetorical question. >Would I let her spank me? Momma hasn't given me a real >spanking since I was seventeen years old. I possibly >would. Would it ever happen? Highly unlikely. > >As far as being too old. (and first let me apologize >to the Moderator) I've told my fourteen and twelve >year olds as far as I'm concerned, they are too old to >spank now, but if they continue to do things that they >know they will get a spanking for, then that's what >will happen. I was too old to get spankings when I was >in my teens, but that didn't stop me from doing things >I knew I would get spanked for. Like getting in >trouble at school. The thing I got in trouble for the >most in school was talking in class. I got a ton of >detentions and Unsatisfactory marks on my report card >because I talked too much. In Elementary and Jr. High. >I got in trouble for fighting in school, which led to >paddling or detention and I got spanked for that. By >the time I was in high school, I quit getting in >trouble for fighting because I learned to settle >things with my words instead of my fists. So I stopped >getting in trouble for that. If I had taken the lesson >I learned about fighting and applied that to talking >in class. I wouldn't have gotten as many spankings at >home as I did. Breaking curfew got me in trouble more >than a few times. I knew what time I had to be home, >yet I made the poor choice and it got me in trouble. > >I hope I was able to answer your questions. If you >have any other questions, don't hesitate to ask hon. > >Sonya

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