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Subject: Re: Guilty feelings


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Sonya to Carol
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Date Posted: 06:12:13 10/26/25 Sun
In reply to: Carol 's message, "Re: Guilty feelings" on 13:44:43 12/04/23 Mon

Hon I started babysitting for some of my neighbors when I was fourteen and would be left in charge of my brother and sister, younger than that. I still did silly if not stupid things as a teen that got me spankings at home, but I took my responsibilities as a babysitter seriously. When I babysat, I didn't have friends over, I didn't sit around talking on the phone, or watching tv. I would interact with the kids, playing games, helping with homework, reading stories, sometimes making up stories for them. I also prepared meals, got baths, and made sure they were tucked in at bedtime. Although I did have permission from some of the parents to spank their kids, I was not a "spanking babysitter" Outside of a little pop to get their attention (which rarely ever happened) when they wouldn't behave or listen, I didn't feel comfortable with the idea of spanking someone else's child. In fact that was the reason why I got the one dissatisfied client I did have. Because honestly they were weird and expected me to paddle their boys bare bottoms if they didn't mind and I didn't do it.

I've mentioned this before. I was fifteen at the time. They were new to the neighborhood and asked around looking for a babysitter and I was recommended by several of the neighbors. The one time I sat for them, They got angry with me because I didn't spank the boys for not going to bed when they were told to. After the third time I put them to bed, they stayed and went to sleep. When I told the mother about it, she asked me if I paddled them and I said no because I didn't think it was necessary. She got angry and told her husband and he decided he was going to paddle my BARE BUTT. But it didn't happen because there was no way I was going to let this perfect stranger spank my bare bottom. I told them "No way in hell" and grabbed my jacket and walked out the door without even getting paid. I never sat for them again and even if I had wanted to, there was no way Momma and Daddy would have let me after I told them what happened. The woman came over the next day and DEMANDED that I be punished for not obeying them. When Momma chewed her out on the porch, the woman said, they would tell everybody what a terrible sitter I was. They tried their best to ruin my reputation, but the neighbors I sat for didn't believe them.

But anyway. even though sometimes I "played stupid games and won stupid prizes" namely getting spanked mostly for nonsense I knew better than to do in the first place. it still didn't stop me from being a very popular and responsible babysitter. So I guess you and I will have to agree to disagree on children young enough for spankings being too young to babysit,

Have a good Sunday Sweetie.

Sonya

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