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>I’m in college now but growing up my brother and I >were spanked pretty often by our dad. We were both >spanked over his knee on our bare butts. He used his >hand and it hurt, even as a teenager. Dad knew how to >give a good spanking! > >I’ll answer questions if you want. > >>I had a question; if it's not appropriate for this >>forum, I apologize and feel free to delete it. >>Personally, I'm not a fan of spanking. I think there >>are more suitable punishments, and I've almost never >>been spanked. >> >>I wanted to know, for those who were spanked as >>children—it used to be completely commonplace, but >>not anymore—are there people here for whom spanking >>was a traumatic experience stemming from the affection >>they had with their parents? >> >>If my question is too personal, I apologize, and I >>think the administrator won't hesitate to delete it. >> >>But if you want to talk to me about it, I'm open to >>discussion. There's a phrase you often see: "I was >>spanked and I didn't die." I wanted to know if this is >>the same for everyone because, after reading some >>accounts on the Dungeon and Malespank forums, some >>stories shocked me. I was born in 2006, so this method >>of discipline is starting to die out, but still, when >>I read things like, "I didn't tell my parents or I'd >>get double the spanking," I wondered, did these >>parents want to spend their lives hitting their >>children or what? I don't want to be judgmental, but >>I'm interested in people's stories and I like to know >>their opinions. >> >>But as I said, I'm from the 21st century, but still, I >>think there are other methods of discipline besides >>spanking, even in previous years, that could have been >>effective. A bare-bottom spanking—when I read some >>accounts, I get the impression that it was very >>common, even at school, starting in kindergarten. But >>sometimes I wonder if the parents' goal was to >>traumatize the child or something? Putting a child >>naked in public is quite a daring act, and when I read >>about it, I wonder if the parent really thought it was >>good for their child's development. >> >>I enjoy interacting with people and hearing their >>opinions, which is why I'm posting this message. >> >>I know that children's happiness wasn't as important >>back then, but sometimes when I read certain stories >>at home or at school—not just about spanking—I get >>the impression that everything had to be done through >>authority, and mistakes simply didn't exist. >> >>I don't think I'm the only one on this forum who is >>against spanking in real life. >> >>If you ever want to talk to me, feel free to send me a >>private message. I love hearing anecdotes and people's >>opinions on these kinds of topics. Hello, my name is >>Mona. I've never been spanked, but I've always been >>interested in the subject. For those of you who have >>been spanked a lot, I wanted to know if you have any >>thoughts on my situation

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