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Subject: Re: Mom vs dad spankings


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Sonya
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Date Posted: 11:56:23 01/19/26 Mon
In reply to: Grumpy 's message, "Mom vs dad spankings" on 12:05:03 01/18/26 Sun

>I am interested in if others agree with my impressions
>and observations of different spanking styles between
>parents:

I'll respond to this for you Sweetie.

>1- mom talks while spanking, dad no

While both Momma and Daddy would lecture before a spanking, Daddy rarely talked during the spanking. Momma would often keep scolding during the spanking.

>2- mom more likely to put you over her lap than dad

With the exception of "attention getters" Both Momma and Daddy almost always spanked us over the knee.

>3- mom hairbrush, dad strap

Both Momma and Daddy spanked us by hand. There were times Momma usued her hairbrush as well as or instead of her hand. Daddy did threaten to "take a belt to us" on a few occasions. But he never did it. Believe me he didn't have to he had big hard hands and getting spanked by him was like a paddle covered in leather.

>4- mom so anxious to spank that she gives traveling
>swats on the way to the spanking place, dad no.

No. The closest I came to a "traveling spanking" would be when Momma spanked me at the local pool when I was seven. She grabbed me by the arm gave me several smacks on my mostly bare wet bottom (one piece swimsuit and major wedgie) and after several smacks, she walked me over to our towels spanking me along the way. Then threatened to pull my swimsuit down and spank me again if I didn't behave right there in front of everybody.

>5- mom when and where in the house, dad more likely to
>take you to a bedroom or basement

Most of our spankings took place in the living room whether it was Momma or Daddy doing the spanking. So neither

>6- mom will discuss spankings with her girlfriends and
>may adopt some of their suggestions, dads don’t
>discuss spankings or techniques with their buddies

Momma did discuss them a few times. Many of my friends' parents were friends with her. So if one (or more) of us got in trouble, It was a point of gossip. Also, I've been spanked by my friends' parents (Especially Ramona's Momma) and my Momma has spanked my friends. I was treated like I was one of my friend's kids by their parents, and Momma was the same way with my friends. So I've had my bare little butt spanked by my friends' parents on a few occasions and Momma spanked Ramona and a couple of other friends the same way. Daddy didn't really talk much about spanking us.

>7- mom more likely to bare bottoms, dad not so much

Actually with my parents, When we got spanked, it was almost always bare butt whether it was Momma or Daddy doing it. Momma did spank more often than Daddy though.

>8- dad more likely than mom to pull the car over, but
>mom more likely to take you from the store where you
>are misbehaving to the parked car to spank

Daddy would take us out to the car on rare occasions to give a spanking. Momma would take us to the Ladies Room.

>9- dads go easier on daughters, moms go harder on sons

Nope, we were all treated equal.

>10- moms say wait til your father comes home, dads
>never say wait til your mom comes home

"Wait till your Daddy gets home." was never a thing at our house. More than 90% of the time, Momma was judge, jury and executioner. But often after we got spanked by Momma Daddy would have a talk with us and truthfully, I'd rather have been spanked by Momma than scolded by Daddy, but I was a Daddy's Girl and it really hurt my feelings when he scolded me.

>11- moms may take you to the ladies room to spank,
>dads don’t take you to men’s room

I pretty much agree with you on that. Momma had no problem at all taking one or more of us to the Ladies Room to blister our bare little butts. The only time I remember it happening with Daddy was actually my brother and one of his friends. He took Troy and his friend Lucas to the Men's Room and spanked thair bear little bottoms. It was kinda funny. we were at a big Church Picnic and Troy and Lucas got into trouble. Daddy decided instead of taking him to the car, he decided to take him to the Men's Room. As he was taking him Lucas's Momma spoke up and said, "Allen are you gonna give Troy a spanking? He turned to her and said, "Yes Ma'am." Then she pushed Lucas toward him and said, "Here, take Lucas with you, pull his pants down and bust his butt too." A few minutes later, he brought the two bawling boys back and made them sit at one of the picnic tables for about a half hour.
>
>Any other differences?

Daddy always seemed to be a lot quicker to want to make up after spanking one of us than Momma. I'm not saying my Momma is hard hearted. Because she really isn't. Daddy however is a big softy.

If you have any other questions sweetie, please feel free to ask.

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Re: Mom vs dad spankingsJeremy11:29:28 01/22/26 Thu


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