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>For the most part, I will say yes. There were things I >got spanked for in my childhood and I learned to not >repeat those behaviors. Like stealing. I stole only >once and knew better. It was from a local grocery >store when I was five. I intentionally stuck a candy >bar in my jacket pocket after being told I couldn't >have it. When I got caught with it at home. Mom had my >grandmother drive us back to the store, where I had to >tell the cashier what I did and apologize with a >promise to never do it again. Then when we got back to >the car. Mom sat down on the passenger side of the >front seat, pulled my pants and underwear down to my >ankles, then put me over her knee and gave me what was >the longest spanking I ever got. She just used her >hand, but she blistered my bare bottom good even with >people walking by and watching. Then as I was trying >to pull my pants up and crawl back into the backseat. >Mom promised me if I ever stole anything again, she'd >pull my pants down and blister my bare ass in the >store in front of God and everybody. The thought of >that broke me from stealing forever. > >If you go though the forum, you'll see I had posts >involving public spankings all bare bottom from my >mother and about not doing homework or chores. Also >spankings I got for getting trouble at school or at >other peoples houses and so forth. I eventually >learned to not repeat the behaviors that got me >spanked. So I guess you could say I benefitted from >mom's spankings. After I had grown up she and I were >discussing my childhood and I was picking on her a >little about all "the beatings I got." she laughed at >me and said, "Drop your pants and show me the scars, >since I beat you so bad." Of course she knew I was >just joking with her. But I came out and asked why >she always spanked our bare butts when we were kids. >She said, "Well first when I pulled you pants down and >spanked your bare butts, the embarrassment lasted >longer than the pain. Second, If I'm spanking your >bare butt, I don't have to hit as hard to get my point >across and third, I can tell by how red your butt was >when it was time to stop." That really sunk in. I've >heard so many people talk about getting paddled at >school or getting whipped black and blue at home and >in all the spankings I got from mom, there was never a >bruise on my butt no matter how long the spanking was >or whether it was by hand or she used the belt, >paddle, flyswatter or hairbrush. > >With my own kids... Well the rules of this forum do >not allow for discussion about giving spankings to >your or other people's kids. The moderator here keeps >a pretty good eye on this forum and will delete posts >where people are talking about giving spankings to >children. Particularly the ones that go into gross or >abusive exaggerations which are all too common in >other forums. I will say though, that when my kids >came along, I was influenced by my mother's parenting >style. They occasionally got spanked, although I >wasn't quite as strict as my mom was. In order to stay >within the rules of the forum, that's about as far as >I'm willing to go on this part of the discussion. But >if you want to ask any further questions about my >upbringing and experiences, I'll be happy to share. >Otherwise, I've been posting my experiences over the >last several years and you are welcome to read them at >your convenience.

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