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Subject: Re: A Little Survey on School Paddling


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Sonya
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Date Posted: 06:47:54 04/16/26 Thu
In reply to: Marshall 's message, "A Little Survey on School Paddling" on 12:25:12 03/02/24 Sat

I came in here to comment on another post I had read and came across this one. I read the conversation between myself and a couple of other posters and noticed I never answered the survey questions.

>Did your school have corporal punishment?

Oh yes it did. In fact, I got spanked at School every year from first through seventh grade.

>If so, did you get a choice between detention or a
>paddling?

Yes and no. At the beginning of each School year, a packet was sent home with forms to be filled out, signed and returned. Such as Transportation forms, List of supplies, Free Lunches, etc... It also included a short booklet about rules and conduct. It advised that Corporal Punishment was an option for breaking the rules and was at the discretion of the teacher or staff member. It did say that Corporal Punishment was to be administered to the child's bottom by hand, or a small object such as a paddle, ruler or small strap. Also that no more than five licks were to be administered. Then there was a rule stating that if a female student were to be spanked by a male staff member, a female witness was required to be present. Then it gave you two check boxes. Where you could either choose "I will allow my child ____________ to receive corporal punishment at school" or" I will not allow my child _____________ to receive corporal punishment at school"

Other options included Detention, Saturday School, ECS, suspension and expulsion.

The only time I was ever given the choice of whether to be paddled or detention/ECS was when the Assistant Principal paddled me for skipping class in seventh grade. In spite of his reputation, I chose the paddle and I regretted it.

Which one did you choose? The one time I was given a choice I chose the paddle,

If not, what would you have chosen? The one time I chose, I chose the paddle because I didn't want to have to spend a week in Detention and two weeks of ECS which would have meant missing a School Event I was looking forward to. In retrospect, I would have chosen the Detention/ECS

My children attend the same Schools I went to. But they have banned all corporal punishment in that system sixteen years ago which was two years before my oldest son was born. The new Superintendent Being a bit of a "Southern Traditionalist" (his words not mine) pushed to "Bring back the Paddle". The decision was left up to the School Board. The board had a couple of open forums allowing the public to speak out whether they were in favor of bringing corporal punishment back or not. I was allowed to speak my mind and shared a couple of my experiences including the paddling I got in Seventh Grade and what I went through in the aftermath and even a threat to homeschool if they brought it back. If my kids deserve a spanking for their actions, I'll spank them, I don't want the school doing it. I ended up talking with four of the five Board members directly after the forum and they all told me they would vote against it. When the vote came up, all five voted against bringing the paddle back. If they had voted to allow corporal punishment again, I sign the permission form to not allow it, and if that weren't an option, I would pull my kids out and homeschool them.

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