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Subject: Re: Sitter dreams


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Jim W
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Date Posted: 00:42:13 03/10/25 Mon
In reply to: Miss Sorebalz 's message, "Sitter dreams" on 15:14:30 03/08/25 Sat

I actually never did any babysitting. We had a few parents from the lumber yard and a few parents that we went to church with who asked me, at one point or another, if I would sit for them.

I always referred them to Nicole, who actually enjoyed sitting.

Also at the boy's school one of the teachers asked me to sit for her nieces and nephews on one occasion. But my reasoning for never taking any of the above up on those opportunities, was because I saw babysitting as a girl's job.

Whether right or wrong, I could never quite get my head past that perception as a Preteen and Teenager. I was a boy, boys didn't babysit in my mind.

On one occasion, I did sit in with Nicole while she was sitting for someone we knew. But the people who hired her, knew about it and were cool with it. I was specifically there in case we needed to lift the kid as he was not really able to move on his own.

(Cerebral Palsy or something like that.)

My point is that I certainly never paddled anyone's kids. I never really paddled my own boys. Corporal punishment was on the table, if I had felt that I needed it. But my boys were behaved enough, I had no trouble getting through to them. So why do it, if it's not needed?

And my boys grew up to be good people. So I must have did something right.

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