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| Subject: New bedtime routine | |
Author: Steve (long posting) [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 09:28:56 02/17/24 Sat Hi, at first I have to give a warning at say sorry.... this is going to be a quite long posting, but I couldn’t manage to make it less detailed. In my thread about the problem with tears, when I have to spank one of our kids, I began telling you about starting a new bedtime routine for our 8-yo son and 11-yo daughter. In this new thread now I want to tell you, how it went since we’ve started it. Of course we didn’t just surprised our kids at bedtime with putting them over the knee for some smacks. Hours before we had a talk with them about our idea. We told them about giving them one smack per year of age when they are going to sleep every day, but on the PJ's / nightgown instead of bare bottom. First reaction were big eyes and our girl protested, she doesn't want to be spanked, when she did nothing wrong. Our son didn't protest but got wet eyes a bit, because he was fearing that it's going to hurt like a full spanking. My wife told them, that it won't hurt like a full spanking, but enough to remember, that it can hurt a lot, if they don't try their best to behave and follow the rules. I told them to better do their best for taking the chance to avoid full spankings or the daily routine could change to bare bottom and/or more smacks like two or three per year for BOTH, no matter if one or both of them didn't take the chance enough. At the end they were comprehensible, that a few stinging smacks are better than a full spanking. With both being used to get spanked by mom, we had another surprise or them. It will be daddy, who gives the bedtime smacks to his girl, while mom gives them to our son. Me and my wife talked about it before and are thinking it's a good idea this way for me getting used to spank 'daddy's girl'. So it might be easier for me to give her a full spanking in future, when needed. At bedtime me and my wife sent our kids to their rooms preparing for bed... and for new bedtime routine. Although we had planed that I give the bedtime smacks to our girl while my wife smacks her little brother, we decided to go to our son’s room together at first. I witnessed how my wife sat dwon next to our son on his left side and talked to him. Again she explained that the following smacks aren’t supposed to feel like punishment, but remember him what could happen, if he misbehaves. She asked, if he understands what she said and after a bit shy „Yes mom“ he was invited to go over mom’s lap and didn’t hesitate. Different than he and also his mom is used from punishment spankings, his PJ’s didn’t come down and my wife gave a first moderate smack to him followed by a second a moment later. Almost no reaction from our son so far and his mom recognized, she has do give more firm smacks to make them memorable for avoiding punishments. I watched my wife giving four firm smacks causing some OUCHes and kicking legs before she announced the last two were going to sting a bit more and gave them good to him. When it was done and he got off from her lap he didn’t really cry, but obviously had some wet eyes and sniffled a bit. While she hugged and comforted him, we looked each other and my wife seemed to be satisfide with the result of the first new bedtime routine for our son. Now it was me, who got a bit nervous... it would be my turn now to give our daughter what I had witnessed moments before. It was also the first time for maybe two years that ‚daddy’s girl‘ was going over daddy’s lap. When we entered her room, she was sitting on her bed in her PJ. Although she seemed to be a bit nerveous like her dad, she tried to take the situation with a bit of humor, asking her mom, if she let her brother survive his reminder smacks. I had rather laughed about her question but felt it wasn’t the best moment for making fun like that. I tried my best to give her a stern look and telling her, we weren’t here to make fun, so she should safe her fun for later, if she still feels having fun then. She looked a bit worried that she had gone too far and would get punished now. A quick „I’m sorry, dad“ followed and I went back to business, telling her to let’s get over with her bedtime smacks, it was late enough already, although we sent the earlier for having enough time to handle the new routine for both kids. Without further words from me or herself she went over my lap and there was it... a sweet ‚daddy’s daughter‘ bottom over my lap. Remembering back two years, it was obviously that my little girl, being 11 in two months, isn’t that little anymore like she was. LOL Like my wife I started giving a first and second moderate smack to get a feeling for how to handle it. My wife witnessed it and didn’t say anything but some gestures suggested to give the smacks not as soft like that. Of course she was right, but it was daddy’s girl over my lap and not a piece of death meat, you understand? Well, I took a deep breath and delivered the next four smacks obviously much more noticeable, because our girl was showing some restless legs and some OUCHES to hear. These four smacks made me even more self-confident and I also remembered my wife’s idea of using the bedtime smacks as a chance to get more used to spank one of our kids, especially daddy’s girl. So I gave three quite firm smacks followed by two with even more force. Some tears were running and also some sniffling to hear like it was with her brother. For me it felt like I’ve given harder smacks than my wife had given before, but hey... being more than two years older than her brother, she has to live with getting more or harder smacks, isn’t she? After some cuddling it was time for sleeping and also time for me and my wife to talk about our first time new bedtime routine. We agreed, that it was a good first time so far and my wife praised me for my good job with our daughter. But we also agreed that it was somewhat strange to spank on PJ’s and we missed the special bond of mom’s or dad’s caring hand on a bare bottom. So it was decided, that it was the first and last time with PJ’s and from next evening on the bedtime routine was given to the bare bottom. The first time also was the only time me and my wife witnessed each other. Now we are going alone to each room at the same time, to handle the routine. Well, I think I could write even more about this first time and the followed days, but this should be enough so far. Maybe one last comment.... since having the new bedtime routine, we didn’t have to punish.... but meanwhile things changed from one smack per year of age to several uncounted smacks at bedtime. 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