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Date Posted: 11:24:38 11/15/25 Sat
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>>>>Well, I have managed to use both my first and middle
>>>>name on this forum. I will probably stick with
>Burton
>>>>or Burt going forward.
>>>>
>>>>After finding this forum and posting the tomboy
>>>>thread, I started thinking about similar situations
>I
>>>>might have experienced or heard about. This one was
>>>>told to me by my wife years ago.
>>>>
>>>>When she was 9 or 10, she was across the street
>>>>playing at a friend's house a girl of the same age.
>>>>The family was beginning the packing process for a
>>>>trip and the mom was scurrying about making
>>>>preparations. The two girls were engrossed with
>>>>playing Barbies. After a time, her friend asked if
>>she
>>>>wanted a popsicle. They then went looking for the
>>>>girl's mother, hearing her voice coming from the
>>older
>>>>brothers room who was 14 or 15 at the time. The
>girls
>>>>wandered in to the room to find the mother having
>the
>>>>son try on the previous years swimsuits to see if
>>they
>>>>still fit.
>>>>
>>>>The boy who was naked at the time, exclaimed to his
>>>>mother that the girls should leave. His mother's
>>reply
>>>>.. " oh, they are just little girls, it doesn't
>>>>matter." The boy had to continue trying on bathing
>>>>suits at the mothers insistence while the two girls
>>>>stood there begging for popsicles.
>>>>
>>>>I thought about that and remembered being told the
>>>>same thing by my mother about my sister and her
>>>>friends.
>>>>
>>>>So, my question is as a boy or young man, were you
>>>>ever told this? Or for you ladies, were you ever the
>>>>lucky little girls who were "far to young" to
>>>>understand what you were seeing (lol) and allowed to
>>>>stick around?
>>>
>>>I have several of these stories. I will post them as
>>>time allows. Did your wife comment on the sight of
>the
>>>boy? I'm assuming she enjoyed seeing him. Sounds
>like
>>>they got to watch him a while.
>>>
>>>The factually closest thing I've experienced to this
>>>was when my friends sister would watch us change into
>>>our swimsuits over the course of the summer. She did
>>>this pretty much every time we'd change and wasnt shy
>>>about looking at the places usually hidden by our
>>>shorts. His mom never said the phrase don't be silly
>>>but she never disciplined her.
>>
>>Hi Dave, this was a conversation from long ago but the
>>context was when was the first time you saw the
>>opposite sex (not related to you) naked? A newlywed
>>type conversation, lol. She did say it was her first
>>time seeing a boy with pubic hair and a larger crotch
>>area. Here previous point of reference was her little
>>brother.
>>
>>So, it was significant enough of an event for her to
>>remember the details years later.
>>
>>It was common at that time to believe girls did not
>>have their awakening to the opposite sex until much
>>later. From what I can tell, nothing could be further
>>from the truth! This same concept plays in to the
>>locker room thread that was just started.
>>
>>The "don't be silly, she's just a little girl" comment
>>was reserved for males who protested. Did you or your
>>friend protest regarding his sister's presence? Was
>>mom there too? If you complied, nothing would be said
>>because it was "normal".
>
>Oh yes there were several events that fit the profile
>though there was one where the shoe was on the other
>foot.
>
>In the case of my friend, I think he and his brother
>were most annoyed and did the most protesting. I got
>the impression she wanted to see them more of a power
>thing like " ha I can see you and you cant see me!"
>She was more interested in me and sometimes there
>would be another boy that would change with us so she
>got to see him too.
>
>I noticed if you turned your back she would maneuver
>herself to be able to view your penis lol. It was
>clear what she waves to see.
>
>Anything like this happen to you personally?
I thought about this subject a bit more and I think I know why the story resonanated with me when my wife told me. The "don't be silly, she is just a little girl" refrain was communicated to males of all ages. There was an afternoon as a kid where the extended family all met at my grandparents for a barbeque and swimming. Later in the day I was sitting in the family room reading a comic when my aunt came marching through with two girls that I vaguely recognized as neighbors. I tried to warn her that her husband was changing out of his wet suit but she was too fast. In the room they went. As I sat there I could hear her husband say to her in a hushed tone, "they need to leave, I'm naked". My aunt responded in her normal booming voice, " don't be silly, they are just little girls, they don't notice these things".
They stayed while my aunt got some sort of hair clips for them and then they all left. I think that left an impression on me.
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