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>>>As I have been commenting on this forum, I have begun >>>to consider that I had different levels of resistance >>>to being nude based on the person requesting. I have >>>commented in another thread regarding my 14 year old >>>cousin who babysat me when I was 10. I "would have >>>rathered" she not see me naked but she pretty easily >>>convinced me that I needed to be bathed and it was no >>>big deal. >>> >>>On the other hand, I had a friend in the neighborhood >>>who lived close by. I didn't particularly like this >>>kid very much but he was the only playmate in the >>>neighborhood, by default, I had to play with him. To >>>make matters worse, his mother dispised me. I won't >>>bore with the details just say that every time her >>>little angel got in trouble, it was blamed on my >>>influence - undeservedly. >>> >>>One day he begged me to stay the night at his house. >I >>>didn't want to, but eventually relented. That evening >>>his mother was going to help us change into our PJs. >>>There was no way I was going to let that hateful >woman >>>see me without my clothes on. I gathered my things >and >>>walked over to the bathroom, shut the door, and >>>changed there. I emerged to a look of disdain from >>>her, not surprising. >>> >>>Can anyone else point to different reactions based on >>>who requested? What was the difference in your >>>estimation? >>> >>>For me, I didn't want to be around that woman at all, >>>let alone naked and vulnerable! >> >>I was generally much more embarrassed to be seen by >>girl's my own age or younger than older girls. The >>closer they were to an adult I tended to view them as >>more maternal figures who should be obeyed. Girls >>younger would either laugh or have a very interested >>reaction. > >Good point Dave, I think in general, it was that way >for most of us. I also really needed a level of trust >in those more one on one situations. If it was a >group of boys, then you are just one of many. It >doesn't feel like the spotlight is directly on you. >You can always hide behind someone else, lol.
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