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] Date Posted:15:36:03 02/03/26 Tue Author Host/IP: 93.88.156.8 In reply to:
Ivana
's message, "Re: After school Rituals" on 16:58:06 01/28/26 Wed
>Dear Anna,
>
>No need to apologize for any delay in responding, I
>understand life gets in the way! As has happened with
>me in the last few weeks!
>
>I am so glad to hear your son's thoughts on his
>experience with his aunt and cousin. Your son's
>attitude to nudity and to his body is extremely
>healthy. I'm so glad that he understands that his
>penis and butt are no different than any of his other
>body parts, like his arms and legs. They're all just
>natural things. He should feel no shame if people
>compliment him or want to touch his penis or butt,
>especially people who he has been naked in front of
>hundreds of times before. I suppose the lesson for him
>(and for all teenage boys) is to learn not to be so
>embarrassed to receive compliments!
>
>Yes, I agree with everything you said about the
>comments from my middle boy's classmates. They have
>been conditioned to be uncomfortable with their own
>bodies from such a young age. Don't worry, my middle
>son is very comfortable in his own skin, and
>understands that he is not weird for being comfortable
>being naked in front of others. Like your sons, he
>doesn't see his 'private' body parts as 'private' at
>all, so does not understand why the boys in his class
>are so ashamed of people seeing their butts and
>penises. Over Christmas, my husband's sister (a nurse)
>commented on how much he's grown, and held his penis
>in her hand. It did not bother him slightly.
>
>I have some exciting news. My eldest son this year has
>decided to start a band with some friends (two boys)
>from school. We have an old drum kit (my husband's)
>and a keyboard, so my son begged us to let them
>practice in our living room. We are worried of course
>that the noise may be disruptive for our other boys
>and my husband (he works from home often). And we are
>worried that having clothed boys around the house
>regularly may form a bad impression for our younger
>boys. But we also want our son to make friends and to
>explore his musical self at this point in his life. So
>we have decided to let them practice at our house, on
>the condition that the boys all practice naked. My son
>is very excited.
>
>I'm very glad to hear that you talk openly with your
>boys about puberty, their bodies, and so on (of
>course, from our conversations so far, I had no doubts
>that this was the case!). I think you must be a
>wonderful mother.
Dear Ivana,
Here I am, finally. Work and family commitments have kept me from accessing the forum as often as I would have liked.
Thank you so much for your kind words, I think you must be a wonderful mother too!
I too am so glad and proud of what my son thinks about his body, his attitude to nudity and how he behaved with his aunt and cousin. And I completely agree when you write « They're all just natural things. He should feel no shame if people compliment him or want to touch his penis or butt, especially people who he has been naked in front of hundreds of times before. I suppose the lesson for him (and for all teenage boys) is to learn not to be so embarrassed to receive compliments! ». We think exactly the same way on this!
I'm so glad your middle son is very comfortable in his own skin, and understands that he is not weird for being comfortable being naked in front of others. That's right! Great that he wasn't the least bit bothered by your husband's sister holding his penis in her hand while commenting on how much he'd grown.
That's great! You already wrote to me about your eldest son's passion for rock music and the guitar. It's great that he can practice with some friends in a small band... I'm so happy for him! It's been a few days since your email. Have they already played at your house, or do they still have to? How did it go? How did his friends react to the news that they'll have to practice naked? Are they used to stay naked at their home, or is it new to them? Are they embarrassed or comfortable? I think you made the right decision.
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Date Posted:18:41:08 02/03/26 Tue Author Host/IP: 185.220.101.27
Dear Anna,
Glad to hear from you again. Yes, my son's friends came over to play music this week. It all went very well! Yes, both of them were a little bit surprised when I told them that they will be practicing with no clothes on. They are not usually naked at home, so it was a new experience for them both. I think they were a little bit embarrassed, but it was no big deal. After they were playing for a bit, I came in to offer them all tea, and both of my son's friends had erections, one playing the bass guitar, one playing the keyboard. My son was playing the drums. But of course this is a natural reaction for boys that age! Afterwards I made them all lunch, and the three of them played basketball naked in the back yard. I think they had a good time. They will be back for practice again later this week.
Date Posted:13:58:36 02/05/26 Thu Author Host/IP: 149.88.18.240
>Dear Anna,
>
>Glad to hear from you again. Yes, my son's friends
>came over to play music this week. It all went very
>well! Yes, both of them were a little bit surprised
>when I told them that they will be practicing with no
>clothes on. They are not usually naked at home, so it
>was a new experience for them both. I think they were
>a little bit embarrassed, but it was no big deal.
>After they were playing for a bit, I came in to offer
>them all tea, and both of my son's friends had
>erections, one playing the bass guitar, one playing
>the keyboard. My son was playing the drums. But of
>course this is a natural reaction for boys that age!
>Afterwards I made them all lunch, and the three of
>them played basketball naked in the back yard. I think
>they had a good time. They will be back for practice
>again later this week.
Dear Ivana,
that's fantastic!
I'm so glad that your son's two friends agreed to practice naked at your home.
And this is even more important and a great achievement, considering that they are not usually naked at home.
Since it was a new experience for both of them, I think it's natural that they were a little embarrassed, especially at the beginning.
But if they had grown up naked like my sons and yours, they wouldn't have even had this slight embarrassment; there wouldn't have been any problem at all.
It was perfectly natural that both of them experienced erections in a situation like that, and at that age. My sons often experience it too.
When you came in to offer them tea and saw them with their erections, what was their reaction? Were they embarrassed or comfortable?
Another great achievement is that they decided to play basketball naked in the back yard.
I hope that having experienced the freedom of playing/practicing naked, they will want to repeat this experience, not only when they come back to your house next weekend, but also when they are at their own home. This would be an important step for them.
I'm curious to see how they will behave next weekend and if they will be more at ease.
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